Broken-hearted, feeling like the world is over, convinced you'll never meet anyone else.

Trina's breakup boost will help heal your heart and get you back in the dating saddle.

She'll give you straightforward opinions and advice for your love life.

Hey guys, so the topic of this episode is your ex's relationship with your family.

So after a breakup you can find yourself in a tricky situation if your ex got close to any members of your family

while you were together.

So that could be immediate family, it could be cousins, whatever. Personally, I think that a clean break is the best way to go,

meaning that once your relationship ends, so do the other connections.

Like it just seems like the easiest way to heal,

at least for a certain duration of time

after the breakup.

You know, when the breakup is really fresh. And I know that there's

probably a lot of people listening thinking, well people should be able to

handle it like mature adults. But those are the people who aren't the ones who just broke up and are suffering

with broken hearts. So of course it's easy for them to say that. You should always put yourself

in your loved one's shoes always

So yeah, you don't always have control over how things play out

I mean your family should always have your back and put your feelings first but it

doesn't always go like that. You know some people may feel as though you have no

right to tell them that they can no longer be in contact,

especially if you had a long-term relationship and people spent a lot of time together.

Because then it could even feel like they're breaking up with the person too, you know what I mean?

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