#176: He Complains that It’s Difficult to Be with Me (Part Two) • The Work of Byron Katie®

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🗓️ 8 October 2024

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(Part 2 of 2) Kvika, my guest today, says that her partner complains that it’s difficult to be with her. She wants him to have more patience with her and not question their relationship. But is it Kvika’s partner who is causing her upset? Join us as Kvika discovers the real cause of her upset.

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0:00.0	Hello everyone and welcome to part two. I love that you joined us. My guest today is Kavika. Her work is in regard to her
0:16.7	partner that looks at her as they sit together and says it is difficult to be with you. This is powerful and
0:26.4	welcome to the work. Welcome to self-inquiry. Let's move into part two.
0:34.0	This is look Let's look at two. Let's look at two in that situation
0:38.0	and he's saying you're being with you is too difficult in that situation. What do you want for him? What do you want him to think say feel or do?
0:48.1	I want him to have more patience.
0:53.0	With you?
0:54.0	Yeah.
0:55.0	Yeah.
0:56.0	Yeah.
0:57.0	And maybe with himself as well.
1:00.0	Sounds like he's already doing that.
1:03.0	Yeah, exactly.
1:05.0	So it's just like, it's like an endless kind of sucking needy.
1:10.0	Neediness.
1:11.0	Yeah, so I create that story and then I mean that in my head instead of really.
1:16.5	Oh, I think you're on to something.
1:20.3	Yeah.
1:21.1	He says, being with you is too difficult.
1:28.0	Yes.
1:30.0	As you're sitting in the living room and those chairs be there now. You want him to have more
1:37.0	patients with you. In that situation, you see how you reacted and number one in that situation you want him to have
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