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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting

197: The Power of Belonging with Special Guest Dr. Alfiee Breland-Noble

Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting

Dr. Lisa Damour/Good Trouble Productions

Kids & Family, Mental Health, Parenting, Health & Fitness

4.8720 Ratings

🗓️ 10 December 2024

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

“Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting” is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday.  ________________ How can parents help their kids feel a sense of belonging when faced with social challenges? In this episode, celebrated psychologist & author Dr. Alfiee Breland-Noble joins Reena and Dr. Lisa to explore how to support children struggling with isolation, loneliness, and the ups and downs of middle and high school. They discuss the importance of fostering belonging by encouraging new friendships, engagement in a range of activities, and promoting open communication. This episode highlights the many ways that parents, caregivers, and educators can help kids feel supported and connected. We want to hear from you! What are some ways you foster a sense of belonging for your child? Dr. Alfiee’s website: https://dralfiee.com/ For more information about the AAKOMA Project, visit: https://aakomaproject.org/ ________________ Episode Keywords: belonging, modeling, communication, vulnerability, social media, self-reflection, self-awareness, social challenges, isolation, loneliness, alfiee breland-noble, dr alfiee, aakoma project Show Keywords: ask lisa podcast, dr lisa damour, reena ninan, psychology, parenting, podcast, teens, tweens, parenting teens, parenting tweens, teen parenting, tween parenting, parenting tips, parenting advice, positive parenting, parenting podcast, teen behavior, tween challenges, raising tweens, raising teens, parenting hacks, parenting help, family dynamics, kids podcast, mental health, teen mental health, attachment styles, emotional intelligence

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0:00.0

Tell me a parenting issue everyone struggles with, with tweens and teens, but no one talks about.

0:06.9

Rina, I think a lot of people feel like they just don't know how to connect to their kid anymore.

0:12.3

I'm Rina Ninen and welcome to Ask Lisa, the Psychology of Parenting Podcast.

0:18.7

And I'm Dr. Lisa D'Amour.

0:20.3

We bring you science-back strategies for managing anxiety, discipline, intense emotions, and more.

0:26.6

We decode tough parenting challenges with tips that you can use right now.

0:32.0

So subscribe to Ask Lisa, the Psychology of Parenting Podcast, and join our YouTube community today. We're here to help

0:39.3

you untangle family life. Episode 197 with special guests, Dr. Alfie Breeland Noble on Belonging.

0:54.0

Let me guess. You have your holiday list done. You've got the gifts wrapped. Everything's good to go. How are you feeling? How you doing? No, I do not. And every year this time, I think, next year I'm going to do it in the summer. I'm going to get Christmas done in the summer. And every year I do not. No, I am totally behind the eight ball. How about you?

1:12.0

You know what? I've just decided I'm pairing it down this year. I'm finally pairing it down this year.

1:16.9

And people will just have to understand. It's just too much going on, Lisa, too much.

1:21.7

It's a lot. I'm always happy. We celebrate Christmas. I'm always happy on the 26th. I feel like I've crossed some finish line and I can relax. I know. Grandmother Nani used to say that Christmas ends on Christmas

1:32.7

Eve and start packing up the tree because it's like it's a full on. It's a full on month. It's a

1:37.5

full on month. But I am excited to talk about the subject. You have wanted to have this guest on who we

1:43.1

met, remember back in the

1:44.6

summer, at our parenting conference, or digital parenting conference. Yep, it was so fun to be with

1:49.4

her in 3D. And it's someone whose work I've admired for so long, and I'm just thrilled that she's

1:54.1

here with us. I'm going to go ahead and introduce her right away. Dr. Alfie Breland Noble, or Dr. Alfie, as we call her, is a pioneering psychologist,

2:02.4

researcher, author, and speaker, specializing in mental health for diverse populations,

2:06.9

particularly youth of color. She's got over 25 years experience, and she founded the Accoma

2:11.6

Project. It's a nonprofit dedicated to helping young people and their families navigate

2:16.5

mental health challenges.

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