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AT HOME with Byron Katie • The Work of Byron Katie® Podcast

#199: I’m Jealous of My Boyfriend • The Work of Byron Katie®

AT HOME with Byron Katie • The Work of Byron Katie® Podcast

Byron Katie International, Inc.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.9870 Ratings

🗓️ 20 March 2025

⏱️ 82 minutes

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Summary

My guest today, Fernanda, is on the phone with her boyfriend, a musician out on tour, and she is jealous. He doesn’t text her much, and when he talks, it’s always about the tour. Is he really a narcissist, as she thinks he is, or might she be missing something? Join Fernanda and me as together let’s solve this problem from the in-side.

 

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0:00.0

Hello everyone, are you in for a treat today?

0:10.0

My guest is Fernanda and her work is, she's still in a judge of neighbor work.

0:16.0

She's just beautifully short, simple sentences, and it has to do with envy, with jealousy.

0:27.7

And it's so powerful, rather than me say more, welcome to Fernanda and her work on jealousy.

0:38.3

Hello, dears.

0:40.3

You know, the grace of God is always in your heart,

0:43.3

but you know that ego, that mind,

0:46.3

its job is to overtake it.

0:48.3

Its job is to be,

0:51.3

to usurp what can never have that power ever. And I'm not inviting you to believe me because

1:03.3

that's not in me because I know better than that. I know the power of ego and the power of mind, but I can speak to that ego we can question

1:16.4

it. It will offer itself up. Just let it fly. He hurt my feelings. He's unkind. There's

1:25.2

something wrong with me. on and on and on.

1:28.4

I can move that from my head to paper.

1:32.8

Now, that is honoring the ego, a thing that appears to have all the power here, or so much of it.

1:43.6

So it's, it deserves a little respect. So I move those thoughts from my

1:51.2

head to paper. It's an honoring of the ego. I see the ego as a terrified, frightened child.

2:03.1

It's in fear that we're trying to kill it all the time.

2:05.7

Don't think that.

2:06.5

Oh, why am I thinking that?

2:07.6

Oh, that's wrong and that's wrong.

2:08.9

And he said, and she said, you know, how are you going to shut that up?

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