How do you square the idea of being yourself with all of the things you just said that you kind of, in a sense, reverse engineer because you know that they will make you more attractive if you do them?

Yeah, I think I think being yourself is kind of BS. I think choosing yourself is the way forward. I'm going to I am in conversation today with the world's most followed productivity expert

Dr turned entrepreneur Ali Abdul.

He is the writer of the new book,

Feel Good Productivity, how to do more of what matters to you.

This is high on my reading list right now. This is I need to learn to enjoy

the process more of all of the things that I'm doing and maybe you do too. So I'm

excited to talk about the book but I'm also excited to get

Ali's insights into dating, relationships, and how to apply the lens of

productivity to our love life.

Check it out, this is my conversation with Ali Al-Dao.

So how was the wedding?

The wedding was amazing man.

We went to Sicily which was a bit scary because I was really really you said something I watched your video today about like

the the 45 minute long one which I was really surprised when I saw that you'd

made a 45 minute long video because I know that's not your normal style.

By the way, incredible, I have so much to talk to you about with this video.

I just feel like you gave me like an existential crisis watching this video.

Oh interesting. You said in the video when it comes to talking about your

brand new book which is called feel-good productivity. Yeah, this one.

When talking about it, you said,

I have felt quite uncomfortable with the idea of reaching out to all of my friends

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