Love Life with Matthew Hussey

How do you know if someone’s really over their ex? Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also haven’t 100% gotten over the heartbreak of their last relationship. Of course, the first questions you ask yourself are: “Is this a huge red flag? Does it mean they are emotionally unavailable? Should I walk away?” This is a really important topic in today’s video, and my answer to this probably isn’t what you’d expect. Give it a watch to find out the signs you can look out for to discern whether someone is truly a bad bet or if they have real potential. --- ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ►► Get 24/7 coaching from Matthew AI: AskMH.com   

Transcribed - Published: 25 April 2025

Are you stuck in a cycle of tolerating disrespect or avoiding tough conversations?  In this episode of Love Life, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into why so many of us stay in challenging relationships—whether romantic, familial, or platonic—for far too long, and how to reclaim your power by setting boundaries and addressing the issues. You’ll learn how to stop obsessing over someone else’s actions and start focusing on why you’re allowing it, plus practical tools for having those difficult conversations you’ve been avoiding.  🎯 Topics include: Why we ignore our needs in the early stages of relationships. How to have tough conversations about what matters to you. The power of teaching others how to treat you—and when to walk away. Why people-pleasing tendencies can leave you feeling invisible in your own relationships. How to break free from unhealthy dynamics and create space for mutual respect. If you’ve ever struggled to stand up for yourself or felt stuck in a one-sided dynamic, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to take action. — 👉 Try Matthew AI for just $7 (only until April 25th): AskMH.com   

Transcribed - Published: 23 April 2025

How do you flirt without looking desperate? When you meet someone you’re into, it can feel like walking a tightrope—you want to show interest, but not come off as too eager. In this week’s episode, I share five subtle-yet-powerful flirting techniques that create attraction . . . without the fear of looking desperate or risking rejection. (Plus, I reveal a playful way my wife flirted with me early on that left a lasting impression—and it’s something you can easily try yourself.) --- ►► Want Your # 1 Dating Problem Solved Personally? Ask Matthew AI Your First Question Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 21 April 2025

We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just don’t seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum. Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, there’s a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And it’s the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long after the date has ended . . . If you’d like to learn what this ingredient is and how you can add it to your next date, don’t miss this week’s brand-new video. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 18 April 2025

Are you walking away too fast—or staying when you shouldn’t? In this episode, Matthew Hussey shares an honest look at how we misread red flags in dating in an interview with Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu). You’ll learn how to spot real red flags vs. amber lights, when to pause instead of panic, and how the right relationship can help you heal. 🎯 Topics include: The difference between a red flag and an “amber light” 🚦 How fear and past hurt can make us overreact or shut down 😬 The danger of going into dating like an "assessor" rather than a present and open human being. Why empathy without boundaries can be dangerous—and how to balance compassion with standards. How relationships can be healing if you show up the right way 💞 Whether you’ve been burned in the past or just want to date with more emotional intelligence, this one’s for you. 👇 Try Matthew AI for just $7 (limited time): AskMH.com  

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2025

If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I’m so done with dating,” this video is for you. Dating burnout is real, and it’s easy to see the process of finding love as a chore.  But what if there was a way to make dating fun again? That’s right. Going out, dating, finding a meaningful connection—this can be a rewarding part of your life, regardless of whether you’re looking for a committed relationship. So if you need a refresh for your brain right now, here are 7 powerful mindsets that will make dating feel easier.  --- ►► Want Your # 1 Dating Problem Solved Personally? Ask Matthew AI Your First Question Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 14 April 2025

Breakups are incredibly hard. And a split can be even more excruciating when your partner moves on while you’re still healing. It can leave you with all kinds of painful questions like: “Why wasn’t I good enough?” “What does that person have that I don’t have?” “Have I lost the love of my life to someone else?” It’s one of the worst types of pain there is. And if we don’t learn the right lessons from our breakup, it can create baggage in the form of insecurities and an unwillingness to open up to someone new. (Risking your chance to find real, lasting love.) But closure can come faster than you expect with a simple shift in the way you choose to think about your ex, and yourself. I’m sharing this powerful shift with you today. If there’s anything I want you to take from this video, it’s that while what you’re going through is hard, it’s also an opportunity. A chance to let go of someone who couldn’t see your value, so that you can make space for a man who can. If someone doesn’t choose you, they cannot be right for you. Period. There’s someone better on the other side of all this. I promise. Today’s video was inspired by a brave male audience member who was devastated when his girlfriend of 5 years moved on only four months after their breakup. Not only will you learn something from the response I give him, but you'll also get insight into how men process pain. Spoiler alert… we ain’t that different. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 11 April 2025

In this episode of the Love Life Podcast, Matthew, Audrey, Stephen, and producer David dive deep into one of the most common struggles in dating: flirting. So many people feel stuck when it comes to creating chemistry, worrying they'll come off as desperate, awkward, or get rejected. This episode breaks down how to define “flirting” rather than just talking, and gives some simple-but-powerful ways to do it in early attraction. 🎯 Topics include: Why people often lose their flirtatious spark when they like someone too much The 4 most common flirting fears (based on poll results) The difference between platonic, desire, and love language How to flirt without being overly sexual or awkward What “people-pleasing” energy looks like and how it kills seduction Practical examples of flirtatious compliments that actually work The secret ingredient: Tension, contrast, and slowing down Plus, we have our regular segment “Steve’s Sleeves” with a fun game of Love Life Crew vs Matthew AI!  💬 Feeling stuck knowing what to say? Download our free guide: 9Texts.com → 9 ready-to-use messages that spark interest, build attraction, and move things forward. 📅 Want live coaching, Q&As, and a supportive dating community? Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com 📩 Have a question or want to send us your Matthew AI answers? Email: [email protected]  

Transcribed - Published: 9 April 2025

If finding love feels harder than ever in 2025, it’s not just you. In today’s episode, I explore the cultural shifts and challenges that are fueling the “relationship recession.” Drawing inspiration from the Netflix series Adolescence, we’ll dive into the disillusionment many men are facing, the frustrations women are experiencing, and the hidden dynamics making connection feel so elusive. From surprising stats to the subtle mindsets that sabotage us before love even begins, this video connects the dots. If you’ve ever wondered why someone amazing vanished after two dates—or why you might be pulling away yourself—this will explain what’s really going on and how to rise above it to create meaningful relationships. Let me know what you think! --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 7 April 2025

Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away? It feels awful. You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special. I’ve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in today’s new video, I’ll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging the relationship (or help you move on to find the RIGHT person for you). --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 4 April 2025

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive into the “box theory”—the idea that people get placed into one of three boxes when dating: "Want to date," "Just for fun," or "Not interested." But is it really that simple? And can you change boxes over time? We break down the psychology behind first impressions in dating, whether it's possible to shift from casual to committed, and what really makes someone decide we’re ‘relationship material’. Topics Covered: What is the “3 Box Theory” of dating Can someone change the box they’re in—or are they stuck? Signs you’re being kept in the “casual” box and how to respond Why first impressions aren’t always final in attraction Emotional connection vs. chemistry: how to tell the difference Dating consistency, standards, and sexual boundaries How to communicate your relationship intentions without fear ►► Subscribe to my Brand New Love Life Podcast channel → @LoveLifePodcast   ►► Ask Matthew AI for personalized advice: AskMH.com   ►► Free training to go from casual to committed: GetCommitment.com   ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com   ►► Email us your thoughts at [email protected]  

Transcribed - Published: 2 April 2025

Why do so many people struggle with the idea of commitment—even when they want love? What fears do you have to confront? And what does it really take to feel ready? In this conversation, I interview newly-married bestselling author and entrepreneur Lewis Howes about managing the “storms” of life, avoiding the self-doubt trap, and what it means to give your heart fully to a relationship. But we don’t stop there. We also get into money—why it’s so emotionally charged, and how unhealed financial wounds can quietly sabotage your dating life. There’s a lot of raw honesty in this conversation, and I hope it meets you where you are. --- ▼ Connect With Lewis Howes ▼ Get Lewis's NEW Book → http://lewishowes.com/moneyiga Website → http://lewishowes.com/ Instagram → @lewishowes TikTok → @lewishowes  X → @lewishowes --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 1 April 2025

We’ve all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we’ll lose all our “power,” but if we show too little, they may not even realize we’re interested.  In today’s Rewind episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 28 March 2025

In this episode, we dive deep into the biggest challenges people face in dating — from rejection and insecurity to feeling like the odds are stacked against you.  Whether you feel stuck due to age, lack of experience, body image, or financial worries, this episode is packed with reframes, real-life listener questions, and practical mindset shifts to help you get out of your own way and start moving forward with confidence. PLUS: A special interview with Lewis Howes on handling overwhelm, emotional regulation, and why taking imperfect action is the key to growth in both life and love. ✨ Main topics covered: How to reframe limiting stories that are holding you back in dating Dating with insecurities around age, experience, weight, or finances Listener questions answered with real advice for building confidence How to stop pre-rejecting yourself and “take yes for an answer” Lewis Howes on emotional regulation, handling pressure, and showing up without perfection Fun “Instant Reframe” segment to turn common dating obstacles into positives 👉 Want help reframing what’s holding you back? Ask Matthew AI here: Askmh.com 🎟️ Grab your early bird tickets for the MH Retreat here: MHRetreat.com ——— 📩 Got a question or feedback? Email us at: [email protected]  🎧 Subscribe for more weekly episodes and practical dating advice!

Transcribed - Published: 26 March 2025

You may have an idea of your perfect partner—the person who feels like the missing piece you’ve been searching for. When you finally meet someone who appears to tick all your boxes, you tell yourself, “This is it—the search is over!”  But is that really what makes someone right for you? What if that person rejects you? In this episode, I show the TRUTH about compatibility in a relationship and what really makes someone “The One,” so that you never obsess over the wrong person again.  --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com    

Transcribed - Published: 24 March 2025

You may have an idea of your perfect partner—the person who feels like the missing piece you’ve been searching for. When you finally meet someone who appears to tick all your boxes, you tell yourself, “This is it—the search is over!”  But is that really what makes someone right for you? What if that person rejects you? In this episode, I show the TRUTH about compatibility in a relationship and what really makes someone “The One,” so that you never obsess over the wrong person again.  --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com    

Transcribed - Published: 24 March 2025

We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . . But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected. Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our needs can be ignored with no repercussions . . . In today’s Rewind episode, you’ll learn the best way to increase attraction and investment in a way that doesn’t diminish your value or make you feel like a nuisance simply for stating your needs. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 21 March 2025

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey have a candid conversation about whether dating your "type" is actually helping or hurting your chances of finding love.  Topics include: Are you stuck dating your "type"? How being overly attached to your type can blind you to better matches The difference between chemistry, compatibility, and long-term happiness Why your “type” might be based on old patterns or insecurities The modern fear of commitment: How people get stuck in relationship “TV shows” (endless flings) instead of committing to the “movie” (deep relationships) Practical signs you or someone else is afraid of committing The dating app “Hobby Dilemma”: How people feel pressured to showcase impressive hobbies Why not everyone fits the “hobby highlight reel” and why that’s okay --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

Transcribed - Published: 19 March 2025

Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isn’t quite right—but you push it aside because everything seems too good to be true? We’ve all been there. And no film captures this better than Anora, this year’s Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards. If you’ve ever rushed into commitment, been swept away by grand gestures, or felt like you’re in a one-sided relationship, then you need to watch today’s episode. I break down the 5 biggest red flags that signal your relationship could be headed for disaster—and how to spot them before it’s too late. --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com  

Transcribed - Published: 17 March 2025

Have you ever dated someone who’s so hard to stay away from EVEN THOUGH they’re not interested in a relationship and you know you should keep your distance? It’s like a drug . . . or the worst kind of junk food . . . even after you swear it off for good, your resolve crumbles the moment they reach out. When you’re in this vulnerable position, the hope that they may change and that things could be different is what drags you back in. And before you know it, you go right back to feeling powerless—holding on to someone who’s not giving you what you need. So how can you break this cycle once and for all? Don’t miss today’s brand-new video! --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 14 March 2025

Welcome to the new re-branded Love Life Podcast, where Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen bring you fresh relationship insights, answer your questions, and throw in a silly game or two every week! In this inaugural episode, we're flipping the script on dating talk—everyone loves to discuss red flags, but today, we're diving into green flags: the subtle but crucial signs that someone is truly relationship material. Topics Covered in This Episode: Why society is obsessed with red flags and how to shift focus to green flags The #1 trait that predicts long-term relationship success The power of celebrating each other's successes in a relationship Why curiosity and learning about your partner is a game-changer How to recognize real green flags vs. performative charm What to do if you’re only attracted to red flag energy Plus: We introduce Green Flag Dilemmas, a fun game that may or may not return 💡 Listener Challenge: Have an idea for what our Love Life members should be called? Email us at [email protected] with your suggestions! ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com

Transcribed - Published: 12 March 2025

We tell ourselves we have high standards—but is that actually true? Or are we just prioritizing the wrong things? And what if we meet someone who’s perfect on paper, but there’s no spark? Can chemistry slowly grow, or is it something we either feel instantly . . . or never will? For today’s new episode, I sat down with Kristin Cavallari on her “Let’s Be Honest” podcast to talk about chemistry vs. compatibility, one of the biggest mistakes people make in dating, and what actually matters when you’re looking for a lasting relationship. --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 10 March 2025

In today’s Rewind episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 7 March 2025

In this episode, Matthew sits down once again with Yung Pueblo, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of "How To Love Better", to explore deeper insights into love, relationships, and emotional growth.  Topics Covered: How to cultivate emotional peace and avoid sabotaging relationships The challenge of maintaining non-attachment while desiring love Navigating dating anxiety and fear of loss How to balance personal happiness and the search for a relationship The role of mindfulness in long-term partnerships How friendships, mentors, and community can support personal growth Understanding intuition when choosing a partner The difference between attraction and true compatibility How to navigate conflict with compassion and understanding ▼ Connect with Yung Pueblo ▼ Website → https://yungpueblo.com/ Instagram → @yung_pueblo X → https://x.com/yungpueblo ►► Transform Your Life in 2 Powerful Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 5 March 2025

This week’s new video is an extra special one: the first half of my interview with poet, meditator, speaker, and bestselling author Yung Pueblo. We talk about specific signs that a relationship will last, the myth of “if it’s right, it will be easy,” how to stop toxic communication patterns, navigating the early stages of dating, and so much more.   No matter which stage of a relationship you’re in, this interview is a must-watch. I can’t wait to hear what you think! --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 3 March 2025

This week’s video is about moving in together. But you should watch it even if you’re not at that stage with someone, because it contains a truth that is essential to understand when moving from one stage of a relationship to the next. If there is someone in your life you plan on getting more serious with, this is for you. I felt this video was especially relevant to these times where the term “turbo relationships” is on the rise. A “turbo relationship” is a relationship that is moving unnaturally quickly because of the circumstances of this year – lockdown necessities, spending large chunks of time with each other, choosing one person instead of casually dating multiple people, and moving in together far earlier than we otherwise would. All of this puts pressure on the relationship that can be counterproductive to it going somewhere long term. If we want to build our relationships to last, it’s important they don’t burn out before they’ve really begun. This video will show you how to ramp up your relationship without ramping up the pressure. Enjoy! --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com  

Transcribed - Published: 28 February 2025

Are you struggling with heartbreak after falling for someone who says they can’t be with you? In this episode, Matthew unpacks what it really means when someone claims they “can’t” be in a relationship. Through the of a woman who gave everything to a man who wouldn’t commit, Matthew breaks down key insights that will help you regain clarity, self-worth, and the courage to move forward. Topics covered: The Difference Between "Right" and "Ready" – Why the perfect person for you isn't just about compatibility but about commitment. Unwilling Compromises vs. Real Obstacles – Understanding when someone is genuinely unable to be with you versus when they’re just unwilling to make sacrifices. Why Love is a Verb, Not Just Words – Actions define relationships, not promises or poetry. The Power of Perspective – If you were in their shoes, what would you be willing to do to make it work? How to Move Forward – Letting go of someone who won’t show up for you and reclaiming your time and emotional energy. For a deeper dive, check out the free "How To Heal From Heartbreak" Masterclass before it disappears!

Transcribed - Published: 26 February 2025

Description: After a breakup, a lot of us know we should go “no contact,” but then all sorts of sneaky questions start to pop into our heads and everything becomes a “What if . . .”   What if . . .   • It’s their birthday? • They’re going through a hard time? • I run into them? • They reach out? • I find out they really miss me? • “No contact” isn’t possible? • I believe deep down that we’re meant to be together? In today’s new episode, I answer 7 of your top questions about going “no contact” so you know exactly what to do during the breakup. ►► Struggling to Move On After a Breakup? Discover Practical Strategies to Rebuild Your Self-Worth & Regain Confidence. Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal from Heartbreak at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com

Transcribed - Published: 24 February 2025

Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another. Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship. With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time. Today’s Rewind episode could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com  

Transcribed - Published: 21 February 2025

Heartbreak is never easy—especially around Valentine’s Day. In this episode, Matthew dives deep into the struggles of heartbreak, the emotional pain of moving on, and how to navigate feelings of loss, regret, and loneliness. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss our free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the process of healing and moving forward. Sign up at LoveLifeTraining.com. Main Topics Covered: Why Valentine’s Day can be a painful reminder of heartbreak The different types of heartbreak: fresh, chronic, and long-term loneliness The power of self-compassion and reconnecting with yourself Why no contact feels so hard—and how to stay strong The danger of dating as a distraction from heartbreak How to stop obsessing over your ex and wishing things had ended differently Dealing with regret and the fear that you lost “the one” How to recognize and avoid emotionally avoidant partners The key to moving forward and finding love again  

Transcribed - Published: 20 February 2025

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey tackle some of the toughest listener questions about love, rejection, and moving on. From rebuilding after heartbreak to recognizing red flags, they also break down the emotional roadblocks that keep people stuck and show you how to move forward. You'll hear: How to ungive up on dating in 2025 Why closure isn’t always about an explanation—sometimes, it’s just seeing the truth The surprising red flag that’s often overlooked when choosing a partner How to stop wasting time on someone who isn’t invested in you What it really means when a person pulls away after intimacy Whether it’s worth revisiting a past connection—or if it’s just a distraction The importance of living a full life outside of dating to naturally attract the right person. If you've ever found yourself overanalyzing someone’s behavior, questioning your worth after rejection, or wondering if you should give love another chance, this episode is for you. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss Matthew’s free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the process of healing and moving forward. Sign up at LoveLifeTraining.com.

Transcribed - Published: 19 February 2025

There are 5 words no one wants to hear: “It’s not you, it’s me . . .” But the moment we hear that, we don’t believe it. We figure they just don’t want to tell us the real reason. We wonder: “Did they feel we had a lack of chemistry? Was it something I said? Were their friends pressuring them to break up with us?” Our mind starts to spiral and we analyze every single thing we might have done “wrong.” In today’s episode, I share 3 reasons why it truly isn’t about you (REALLY!) and how you can use that knowledge to move on from heartbreak faster.   ---   ►► Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From Heartbreak at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 17 February 2025

Are you one of those people who dreads Valentine's Day? Whether they're single or in a relationship, people have all kinds of reasons for wanting to skip February 14th: There’s too much pressure to be romantic. It’s all about money and gifts. Single people are made to feel like failures. It would be easy for me to say all the reasons Valentine’s isn’t worth the trouble. But I think we can all make this an event we actually enjoy instead of dread. First, you need to avoid some of the big mistakes people make when approaching the day (and their whole dating life). Avoid these 5 traps, and you’ll be on your way to fulfilling love at any time of year . . . --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 14 February 2025

When we’re heartbroken, it can feel like the pain will go on forever . . . we’re afraid and overwhelmed, and too often we fall into habits that actually make it harder to heal. In this new epsiode, you’ll learn about 4 behaviors that can keep people stuck in heartbreak, and give you a “heartbreak roadmap” so you can finally move forward and feel like yourself again. (And be sure to stay until the end for a brand-new tool that can help you move on!) ►► Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From Heartbreak at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Transcribed - Published: 10 February 2025

It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships. You’ll also see how to communicate your needs if someone isn’t giving you real closeness and it feels like they are  rushing forward while not showing real consistency. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 7 February 2025

In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew also talks about limiting beliefs and reshaping your mindset so you can stop waiting and start living—even in the messy, imperfect middle of life! Topics include: The illusion of a "fresh start" and why life never truly pauses A Love Life Club member's dilemma: Can you date while preparing for single parenthood? The reality of navigating life nel mezzo—in the middle of everything How our subconscious wiring shapes our goals and behaviors The trap of waiting for ideal conditions before taking action Why New Year's resolutions often fail (and what actually works) --- ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → MHWeekendRetreat.com ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Transcribed - Published: 6 February 2025

Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might convince ourselves we can’t live without them, or think we’re being too hard on them, or keep trying to stay in touch . . . In today’s episode, I explain why this happens and provide you with a tool that can help you get peace and clarity to finally move on from a narcissist for good.   ---   ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Transcribed - Published: 3 February 2025

What’s the #1 most attractive thing someone can do on a first date? Play footsie under the table? Wear a stylish, confidence-boosting outfit? Whisper, “Hey, you look amazing” when greeting them with a hug? Nope. While those things might not hurt your chances, what really makes someone want to see you again comes down to how they feel in your presence. They need to feel intrigued. They need to feel attractive. They need to feel a sense of fun… This week, I’m going to share 5 powerful lines you can use to spark great emotions and leave them dying to see you again. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com  

Transcribed - Published: 31 January 2025

 In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into: Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your life. Routines for a Better Love Life: Small but powerful habits to help you meet new people and feel more confident. Avoiding Burnout: Lessons from 2024 on why overcommitting can drain your happiness. The Power of Social Interactions: Why making an extra effort to engage with people can transform your opportunities. Navigating Toxic Friendships: A listener question about dealing with a partner’s problematic friend—when to ignore and when to speak up. The Truth About Social Media: How to take control of your digital habits for better mental health. Finding What Really Works for You: Discovering and sticking to your own personal "truths" that lead to a happier, more fulfilling life. ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Transcribed - Published: 29 January 2025

Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be doing that push someone away without us even realizing it. In today’s episode, I share 5 behaviors that may make someone pull away . . . and ways you can leave people better than you found them (and wanting more!) Whether you want to learn how to become a better listener, not come across as too intense when you really like someone, or just be a better date, don’t miss it! These practical tips can help you instantly change your dating results.   ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Transcribed - Published: 27 January 2025

"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .”   Nobody wants to hear these words.   Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about.   Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term.   It leaves you wishing they could just get over their indecision...   If that sounds familiar, I have a simple solution:   Because there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation...   The wrong way is to try and convince them of all the reasons you’re a great fit (even if every reason is true). This can accidentally push them further away. . . The right way to handle this situation is to meet their confusion with love and kindness, while also standing strong and respecting yourself.   (Here’s the surprising part: this is actually an incredible opportunity to show your value and remind them of what they risk losing.)   --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 24 January 2025

In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practical steps to break through our old habits and wiring. Topics include: Why Resolutions Fail: How old patterns and beliefs hold us back, no matter how ambitious our goals are. Why creating new goals without addressing underlying habits leads to frustration. The role of action and getting new reference points to rewire our beliefs. Breaking generational patterns of beliefs, behaviors, and trauma. Deciding to "be the pioneer" who changes the trajectory of your family or personal life. Recognizing the opportunities missed due to self-protective behaviors. Why fear of rejection and always "playing defense" hold us back. Practical tools for managing emotional triggers and replacing them with healthier responses.  ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Transcribed - Published: 22 January 2025

“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all that time with someone. But this thinking is a trap. If you’ve caught yourself feeling “I’m so behind compared to everyone else,” use the four powerful mindset reframes I share in today’s episode to get out of your rut and start moving forward again. ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Transcribed - Published: 20 January 2025

an you relate to this? You start dating someone who seems too good to be true. Maybe they treat you like no one ever has before, or they check all the boxes you’ve been looking for, or maybe it’s their success or status that makes you feel like the luckiest person just to have their attention (as in today’s example). But here’s the catch: they’re sending you mixed signals when it comes to commitment. You keep spending time together, but you’re still unsure of what they actually want. It’s a tricky situation. Even though you can sense something is off, the fear of losing them—and the uncertainty of finding someone as amazing as they seem—makes it nearly impossible to set boundaries or create distance. You’re stuck, holding onto something that might not be what you thought it was. If this sounds familiar, don’t miss today’s episode—it’s a rewind you won’t want to miss. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 17 January 2025

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today. Topics Covered: The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive. The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children. The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in the middle): Living life amidst its chaos. Common mental traps: Waiting for the ideal time, trying to avoid pain, and over-planning. The role of self-compassion when dealing with setbacks or unproductive days. Redefining the idea of a “new chapter” and leaning into life’s ongoing conversations. Practical steps to challenge limiting beliefs about what’s possible in life and relationships.   ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Transcribed - Published: 15 January 2025

After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re trying to build an organic relationship while secretly stalking every part of someone’s life. In today’s new episode, I share practical strategies you can use when you feel the urge to keep checking your date’s social media pages . . . and how you can redirect your attention in a way that will make you even more attractive. ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

Transcribed - Published: 13 January 2025

I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had. If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. Life feels like white noise, and your every waking moment goes back to that feeling of loss and pain. We’ve all been there, right? But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food. It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me... --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 10 January 2025

In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one: the relationship with themselves. She also hosts the popular Jillian on Love podcast. Topics Covered: The most common dating patterns that hold people back—and how to break them. How to know when you should accept someone's flaws vs. when they are fatal to the relationship. The danger of “playing house” in early relationships and how to have the difficult conversations. Moving past unchallenged limiting beliefs, including “I’m not lovable” or “all men cheat.” The crucial difference between chemistry and character—and how to avoid falling for the wrong people. What you should do in the first 5 dates to test compatibility How to make peace with your past, including complicated relationships with parents, to find freedom in your love life. How to move on from heartbreak and embrace the possibility of love again. The art of setting boundaries and recognizing when a partner's behavior doesn’t meet your needs. ✨ Follow Jillian Turecki online: Follow Jillian on Instagram: @jillianturecki Order Jillian's new book: It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life Listen to Jillian's podcast: Jillian on Love

Transcribed - Published: 8 January 2025

Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to:  • Boost your chances of finding love. • Make you a better conversationalist. • Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way).  • Increase your love for life.   Whether you want to be a little less shy or just want to level up in your social life, this is a must-listen. And it shouldn’t feel like work! It should get you excited and inspired.    Let’s do this together.   ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . .→ http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com  

Transcribed - Published: 6 January 2025

Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace? It’s a profound form of mental torture. All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?” If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life… Or if you have an old flame who keeps coming in and out of your life… Please… watch this before you do anything else. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

Transcribed - Published: 3 January 2025