#254 Overcoming Dating Games and Finding True Compatibility with Yue and Julie of Dateable

Heal Your Heartbreak

Break Up Bestie

Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement, Education

4.8 • 714 Ratings

🗓️ 28 January 2025

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

On this episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast we have guests Julie Kraftchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the Dateable podcast and authors of the new book "How to Be Dateable." Rather than providing typical dating rules or gimmicks, they discuss how to approach dating authentically and in alignment with one's true self.

In this episode we talk about

– The modern dating pitfalls that keep people stuck in unfulfilling patterns

– Different dating archetypes (Maverick, Achiever, Thinker, Dreamer, Energizer) and how understanding your type can help you date better

– Moving away from "dating games" and inauthentic behaviors

– Finding your "dating North Star" and staying true to your core needs

– Rethinking compatibility beyond surface-level commonalities

– Handling rejection and building resilience in dating

– How to maintain your sense of self while dating

Find out why dating doesn't have to feel scary or depleting - it can be energizing when approached from an authentic place. Julie and Yue both share personal experiences and insights from their decade of podcasting about relationships.

Whether you’re actively dating or healing from a breakup and are nervous about dating again in the future this episode is for you.

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0:00.0	If you are looking for even more help and guidance on your breakup, I have a few different
0:04.2	options for you to take your healing to the next level. I have four different online courses
0:08.7	depending on what stage of the breakup that you're in from beginning all the way into moving
0:13.5	on after heartbreak, or you can bundle all of my courses together and use the code podcast
0:18.6	to get $25 off my course bundle.
0:21.8	I also have my 30-day no-contact challenge to help hold you accountable in going no
0:26.1	contact with your ex.
0:27.7	And we have our free Facebook group, Healing Hearts Club, where you can connect with other
0:31.4	people going through breakups all over the world.
0:34.2	To learn more about any of these resources, head to the show notes where you can learn more
0:38.2	about my courses, take the quiz to figure out which course is best for you, or join the Facebook
0:43.0	group. And don't forget to use the code podcast to get $25 off my course bundle.
0:53.8	Welcome to the heal your heartbreak podcast with your host, Breakup Bestie, aka me, Kendra.
1:01.1	Breakups are hard, but you don't have to do it alone.
1:04.4	Each week, I will be taking you through a different topic as it relates to breaking up, healing from heartbreak, growing in your single life,
1:12.5	dating and getting back into happier and healthier relationships.
1:16.9	The goal of this show is to provide support, hope, tips, and to remind you that above all,
1:23.8	this too shall pass.
1:28.8	Welcome back to the heal Your Heartbreak podcast.
1:31.4	Today I have the, what I would call like the OG relationship podcasters, the host of
1:37.5	the podcast Datable, Julie Craftchick and U.A. Shue.
1:41.3	We are talking about their new book, which comes out today, How to Be Datable.
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