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Brave Writer

276. Freedom from Shame with Parenting Coach Crystal Haitsma

Brave Writer

Julie Bogart and Melissa Wiley

Books, Arts, Education For Kids, Kids & Family, Education

4.8904 Ratings

🗓️ 26 February 2025

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

How does shame shape the way we parent?

In this episode, we sit down with life coach and homeschooling parent Crystal Haitsma to explore how shame influences our parenting—often without our realizing it. Crystal shares her insights on the difference between guilt and shame, and how we can shift from frustration to curiosity in our relationships with our kids. We also discuss how prioritizing self-compassion can transform both homeschooling and daily life, helping us build stronger connections with our children.

If you’ve ever felt discouraged, overwhelmed, or like you’re “not enough” as a parent, this conversation will bring comfort and clarity. Tune in now to learn how to shift your mindset and create a more peaceful home.


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0:53.6

Hello, Brave Rider family. I'm so glad you come back each week to listen to this podcast. Your reviews,

0:59.1

your stars, your subscriptions, and just your wonderful feedback. Help us keep this show on the air. So thank you for that.

1:07.1

This week, Melissa is attending to a family matter, so she will not be able to join us.

1:12.9

That said, I have a wonderful guest today named Crystal Heizma, the parenting coach.

1:18.2

Some of you may know her from Instagram, and we'll get to that interview in just a moment.

1:23.8

First, though, I wanted to let you know that my next book is available for pre-order.

1:30.4

I know, fourth book, kind of amazing.

1:32.4

It's called Help, My Kid Hates Writing.

1:35.6

And because I have four books now, I finally realized I think I need an author website.

1:41.2

So we put one together, and that website is JulieartWriter.com. So if you want to

1:48.6

pre-order, I would love it. If you did, there will be some pre-order bonuses that I'll

1:54.0

announce. So hang on to your receipt. But in the meantime, thank you so much for your enthusiasm,

1:59.8

for the work and writing that I do.

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