278: How To Know You're In The Wrong Relationship w/ Jillian Turecki

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 8 January 2025

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one: the relationship with themselves. She also hosts the popular Jillian on Love podcast.

Topics Covered:

The most common dating patterns that hold people back—and how to break them.
How to know when you should accept someone's flaws vs. when they are fatal to the relationship.
The danger of “playing house” in early relationships and how to have the difficult conversations.
Moving past unchallenged limiting beliefs, including “I’m not lovable” or “all men cheat.”
The crucial difference between chemistry and character—and how to avoid falling for the wrong people.
What you should do in the first 5 dates to test compatibility
How to make peace with your past, including complicated relationships with parents, to find freedom in your love life.
How to move on from heartbreak and embrace the possibility of love again.
The art of setting boundaries and recognizing when a partner's behavior doesn’t meet your needs.

✨ Follow Jillian Turecki online:

Follow Jillian on Instagram: @jillianturecki
Order Jillian's new book: It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
Listen to Jillian's podcast: Jillian on Love

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0:00.0	Before we get into today's episode of the Love Life podcast, have you taken the opportunity
0:10.6	to think about the question you'd like to ask me right now and been to Matthew A.I.
0:17.4	To ask it. You can literally go to Matthew AI, hit call and watch this. It's Matthew
0:26.0	AI. How can I help? And you can ask Matthew AI a question just like that. Can I ask you a question,
0:32.8	Matthew AI? Absolutely. Feel free to ask me anything. I'm here to help with whatever's on your mind. What's your
0:39.1	question? Well, that's really good to know, isn't it? It's reassuring. So you can go and try it
0:44.1	yourself. Make a call to me and ask anything you like at ask mh.com. Go check it out now. If you
0:50.6	haven't already, you can try it out for free. You can call it, it you can text it whatever's right for the situation you're in today I have a very special
1:00.2	episode with the wonderful Gillian Cherokee a world-renowned relationship coach teacher
1:06.7	author and host of the podcast Jillian on love Jillian has helped thousands over the last 20 years
1:13.4	through her teachings, courses and writing to revolutionize their relationships with themselves
1:18.4	so that they transform their romantic relationships. Jillian just released a brand new book
1:24.0	called It Begins with You, Nine Hard Truths About Love that will Change Your
1:29.5	Your Life. This was a really great conversation. We explore dating, we explore the choices we make,
1:37.4	we explore the patterns that have plagued our past and how to shed those patterns in the
1:43.2	present. And we talk about some of those hard truths about love that can change your life that she has written about in her book.
1:50.0	Gillian is super insightful. I know she has so many people out there who love following her advice.
1:56.0	So if you don't know about her, this will be a wonderful introduction to her.
1:59.0	And if you do know Jillian already, this is the first time I've had the chance to interview
2:03.6	her on the Love Life podcast.
2:06.1	So enjoy and I'll see you at the end of the episode. Welcome back everybody to the Love Life podcast.
2:31.0	I am here with my friend Gillian Cherokee.
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