Katie, before we jump it, oh, crazy.

What, why don't you read this awesome question to our listeners that kind of sparked this discussion in in so doing sparked this episode.

Okay so it's kind of long but I'm going to paraphrase a bit.

Can you and Elisha actually share some of the struggles you've had with your marriage?

This sounds bad and it's a prideful thing in my heart, but I want to know that you two have

actually had struggles and seasons of hardship because it seems like you've always had it

altogether.

For families from a broken home with little guidance from parents, it sometimes seems overwhelming

to achieve what you two have.

I'm learning that God gives grace and our weaknesses and struggles though no

matter what and obviously I understand if you can't share about deep things in your

marriage don't want to cause strife and whatnot between you two. I actually read it

pretty verbatim but it's a great question it is yeah and it's I mean I'm so

grateful that you took the time to submit that question and to write it out so

thoughtfully and graciously.

And same goes from like all of you that have written so many kind comments in the midst

of submitting your question. It's really encouraging. So we're excited to talk about this

one today primarily as it pertains to our marriage. I'm sure that'll segue into parenting

as it does. But yeah, let's get this thing rolling Kagan. Kady before we start I want to acknowledge how you've been back in content

creation mode more than more than usual more than like your your new normal

M. O I'd say like your M. O over the last six months, maybe year, you've been creating more content than what's been usual.

And it's fun to see, and it's always fun to hear, because you're creating this is just I think an

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