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Hi guys. Well, we are overdue for a tiny talk on body count. And for those of you who are unfamiliar with this term, uh, no, it's not the number

of bodies you have hidden in your basement. Body count refers to the number of people you've

slept with. And whenever I come across a video talking about asking people what their body count

is, it makes my skin crawl. It's bad enough that people in their

20s think that this is a great conversation starter. But when I see 30 and 40 something's doing it,

yikes. Unless you want to be super cringe and come across as though you have the maturity of a 13-year-old,

you need to stop asking this.

The kind of guy who asks this question is one you can do without ladies.

Trust me on that.

We refer to these types as douche canoes.

This isn't the type of guy who is a gentleman. No, he's not the kind of guy

that you're going to be proud to take home to mom and dad. And ladies, when you ask this question,

you just look super naive. When you meet someone, the things you should be focusing on are things

like, is there chemistry? Do you click? Do you like how

you feel when you're around them? Do they seem like they have a good head on their shoulders?

Do they seem smart? Do they seem genuine? Or are they leaning more towards bullshitter? Are they

giving off red flags? Or are you kind of into seeing them again?

And here's the kicker, okay? Asking someone's body count and just assuming the number is accurate

is the most foolish part about all of this. People obviously lie about this and modify their

answers to manipulate you.

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