45: I Don't Sleep with Women, But I Do Have Sex with Them feat. Sincere Show

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 6 October 2022

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Sincere Show, best known as Jason Derulo's DJ and a former castmate of Love and Hip Hop, came to this podcast to discuss non-monogamy and why his life of abundance has informed his decision to seek out an open relationship. However, the interview went much deeper and wider covering topics like fear of abandonment, sexual trauma, power dynamics and harmful tropes.

This episode poses thought starters such as: What does it look like to be healed? Can you know what you want without knowing yourself without the baggage of trauma? How much space should we make for hurt people who hurt people? When are boundaries unhelpful brick walls? Should we prioritize or drive for sex or safety?

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0:00.0	To be in a relationship, you have to almost love
0:03.9	set person more than you love yourself, right?
0:06.4	So for me, that looks like if what makes me happy,
0:10.8	it's like having a multitude of women all the time.
0:13.4	And if I'm in fucking Dubai and I meet a girl,
0:16.9	and we click, but I have someone at home
0:20.0	that I have to think, well, will this make them unhappy
0:22.4	than that compromises my happiness?
0:24.3	And I never want to do that.
0:25.9	Do you feel, because you have had numerous severe, traumatic
0:31.5	relationships and instances with women
0:33.4	that has made it really hard, I would
0:35.0	assume to feel safe with women?
0:36.2	100%.
0:38.0	Do you feel like you have repaired that?
0:40.0	Can't even sleep with a woman in my bed.
0:42.8	I don't sleep.
0:44.0	I have a part of having a big house.
0:47.4	Yuppies and friends.
0:49.7	I'ma take you on a trip.
0:51.4	Baby, I don't pretend.
0:52.5	I say Yuppies and friends.
	...

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