Why don't we lean into empathy first and say like, what is Adam going through or what has he gone through that would lead him to do something so careless?

Because he made his trauma, his wife's responsibility.

Like Adam Levine's wife hasn't spoken out and that says a lot to me.

You know, people that can sit with themselves. I don't want to speak until I know how I feel.

I mean, he posted a story the next day. I was like, you don't even know what you're doing. You're not thinking about the people around you and how you affect them.

You are living as a solo jellyfish. Did your career define you? And now that's not doing so well. I think at base of it, even animals protect their people.

Hi there lovers and friends. Welcome to the podcast called the same thing that I just used as a greeting and speaking of greetings.

Can I say hi from me to you? And who is me? My name is Shamboodjara. I'm a public facing sex and relationship educator who's been working in the space for the past 15 years.

And this here podcast is a space that I am most loudly and proudly doing my work and talking about the issues when it comes to intimacy that I think are most fascinating.

And what's fascinating about that is in our 40 plus episodes, we have never talked about cheating yet.

And some places and people who talk about relationships, all they do is talk about cheating. And for good reason, this topic gets people going.

Estupor El said in her book, The State of Affairs. I'll always remember this that when we think about a lot of issues that are highly arousing, get people riled up, abortion rights or the death penalty.

There tends to be people on both sides who feel very strongly about very different stances. But when it comes to cheating universally, we almost all feel the exact same way.

How fucking know how dare you you are a vile, terrible person and throughout history, we have gone through extremities in order to punish cheating the death penalty, obviously, stoning people to death.

I'd please someone fact check this, but I believe that there is an Australian city that people from England used to sentence cheaters to.

Today, we're going to take a look at how exactly Australia became England's penal colony. Once upon a time, the people of England believe that getting rid of criminals wouldn't crime.

So they sent their convicts across the ocean to the largest island in existence.

But this week, it was pretty inevitable that we were going to talk about this in some way, shape, or form because it was in your group chats, it was in your email alerts, it was in the lineup at Starbucks.

The two public figure scandals that happened at the exact same time almost the Nealong and the Boston Celtics coach cheating scandal alongside the Adam Levine and his pregnant wife cheating scandal.

This Instagram model named Sumner went on to TikTok to expose that she had a year long affair with Adam and he had asked her for permission to name his son his third child with his wife after her.

I know you want to speak on this one. Nealong has been trending on social media because on fiance is facing disciplinary action over the ledge and proper and consensual relationship with the female member of the Celtic staff.

And although in many cases, these are unremarkable stories because it feels like celebrities are always cheating on each other. I mean, real truth is, people in general, this is happening all the time everywhere, which again is why it really gets us because we have so much relatedness.

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