48: Longterm - Sex Is Hard (NO pun intended..or maybe it is) feat. Kev On Stage and Mrs Kev On Stage

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 27 October 2022

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Does sex HAVE to get less passionate as time goes on in a relationship? Is it possible to keep that “can’t keep your hands off each other” feeling in a marriage? In this episode we explore these questions and share the depressing/ hopeful truth about the secret to good sex in a long relationship.

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Fun fact, falling in love is stressful on the body, but being in love is healthy for the body. When we are falling in love we experience an increase in cortisol, the stress hormone, but studies show that when we develop an attachment to someone oxytocin can actually work to inhibit cortisol production and stress response. That’s why researchers say that true love probably begins when the hormonal cocktail stops working.

So long story short maybe the loss of passion in our sex life as we know it, is not such a bad thing

Meet the guests of this episode!!!

Kevin Fredericks aka KevOn Stage is an actor, stand-up comedian, entrepreneur, podcast developer and host and filmmaker. Kevin is part of a generation of comedians who gained fame online and has accumulated hundreds of millions of views on social media. He is currently on his 3rd SOLD OUT national comedy tour and he is a New York Times bestselling author with his book Marriage Be Hard that he co-authored with his wife Melissa Fredericks who you might know on the internets as Mrs Kevon Stage.
Melissa hosts The Love Hour podcast and is best known for her betterment campaigns and advocacy for self-love.
Together, Kevin and Melissa provide a hilarious and fresh master class on what it takes to build and maintain a healthy and lasting relationship.

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Now, I'm more of like a silly stripper.
0:03.0	Like I couldn't really keep a straight face.
0:05.0	But I gave my central dance.
0:07.3	I was magic, my magic cap.
0:09.2	I did it. It was great.
0:10.1	It was a fun time.
0:12.1	You did a striptease for Melissa?
0:13.8	Yes.
0:14.6	Because what's happening?
0:15.4	Because I was like, yes.
0:17.4	Because he kept asking me to do it.
0:18.9	And I'm like, I don't know what I'm doing.
0:20.6	Like, matter of fact, you need to do it.
0:23.1	Yes.
0:24.4	Put on a song and now it's your turn.
0:26.3	And he had to do it.
0:27.4	And I did.
0:28.2	Understand, like, it's kind of awkward.
0:30.8	You don't really know what you're doing.
0:31.9	I don't know what I'm doing.
0:32.7	Let me not say, y'all, me personally, I don't be doing what
0:35.2	I'm doing.
	...

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