Is a part of you questioning if you would feel as excited to turn 30 in a few hours if you weren't in love right now?

I

Did think about this the other day because I was like, okay, I'm not married. I am seeing someone

I'm very happy with this person, but I don't have kids like I don't have the things that I thought that I was gonna

Have in my 30s, but I think I would feel worse if I was turning 30 in a unhappy relationship. I

Think I would feel less accomplished.

What's up lovers and friends welcome to lovers and friends the podcast brought to you by your hostess with the most

Dist I stuttered there because I'm the hostess with the least is to be honest with you right now

I am struggling with my inner perfectionism because I am recording on a

Camera in front of a dingy window in a low-lit hotel room holding an iPhone and as you know here

We pride ourselves on production and quality and so it's making me struggle a little bit that this week

We don't have it. What will we do have is a podcast devoted to coming to you week after week despite the conditions in

Ordered to share important stories about sex-loving relationships that can help you reflect and hopefully amplify your own intimate life

This episode is pretty perfect given the condition I just described because what we're talking about is

Transitioning from your 20s into your 30s and how for many people this

Transition is less about big differences in their life and

Reconciling with the different feelings that come up as a result of this turn of the page the turn of the decades and what I mean by that is many of us grew up

Seeing ourselves at 30 in a very particular way and

Statistically many of us don't fit the vision that we painted in our younger years most people are now getting married

or you know coming into their

Long-term life partner or their attempt at life partnership in their late 20s early 30s and

Because of that most people are also having their first child

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