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The Mel Robbins Podcast

5 Signs Of An Incompatible Relationship & 3 Signs You’ve Found “The One”

The Mel Robbins Podcast

SiriusXM Podcasts

Education, Mental Health, Relationships, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.810.6K Ratings

🗓️ 2 December 2024

⏱️ 82 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, you will learn the requirements of a good relationship – and the signs your relationship may not go the distance. If you’re wondering if someone is “the one” and you’re not sure if you should end things, you’ll get the answer today. And if you’re struggling through a rough patch in your relationship and want tools and tips on how to make it better, Mel is sharing that as well. Today, you’re getting the skills you need for any healthy romantic relationship. Whether you’re in the early stages of dating, committed for years, or simply curious about your compatibility, this episode will give you the tools to navigate love with confidence. Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory, which she mentions in this episode. For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here for the podcast episode page. If you liked this episode, and want to hear a very candid conversation with Mel and her husband Chris about their 28 year marriage, listen to this episode next: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage Connect with Mel: Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast Instagram Mel's TikTok Sign up for Mel’s personal letter Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ on Apple Podcasts to listen to ad-free new episodes Disclaimer

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins podcast.

0:07.8

You and I are going to tackle one of the most agonizing questions that every single human being on this planet grapples with at some point.

0:18.9

You might be grappling with this right now.

0:21.7

What is the question?

0:29.6

It's am I with the right person? Is this the right relationship for me? Or is there someone else that's better out there? Well, today, here's what we're going to do. I have dug into the research

0:35.5

on relationships. I have also looked at my 30-year marriage.

0:39.1

I've looked at the toxic dating patterns that I was engaged in before I met my husband.

0:45.1

And I have three mistakes that I'm going to reveal to today. These are three mistakes that people

0:51.3

make that either have them stay with the wrong person or end it

0:55.8

with the right person. And then I'm going to teach you this relationship assessment tool.

1:01.3

It's called the ABC Loop. And by the time you and I are done with our conversation today,

1:06.5

you're either going to have the courage and the conviction to finally end something that you know in your gut is wrong for you.

1:14.5

Or you're going to realize, holy cow, I am with the right person.

1:20.3

And now I know what I need to do to move forward and make it even better.

1:28.1

One of the most important relationships in your life is the one that you have with your partner.

1:32.3

I guarantee you there is so much more excitement waiting for you both.

1:36.0

And I have something very simple and surprising that I want to share with you thanks to

1:40.2

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1:45.1

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1:50.3

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1:58.9

Hey, it's your friend Mel. I am so thrilled that you tuned in today. I'm just unbelievably

2:04.4

fired up for our conversation because I have so much to share with you. And in fact, the topic

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