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The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-

#585: Self-Talk and Self-Validation: How to Be Nicer to Yourself

The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-

Trish Blackwell | Life Coach, Confidence Coach, Mindset Coach

Impostorsyndrome, Education, Positivepsychology, Christianity, Confidencecoach, Christianlifecoach, Religion & Spirituality, Christianmentalhealth, Self-improvement, Eatingdisorders, Confidence, Accountabilitycoaching, Bodyimage

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🗓️ 6 February 2024

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Do you have an inner mean voice that no one knows about? You know, that voice that is always beating yourself up, telling you that you could have done better, and putting pressure on you to lose weight, be cooler, do better or make less mistakes? We call that voice your self-talk. The self-talk narrative that you have determines everything about the level of confidence you feel. The great news is that you can change your self-talk. My self-talk used to be absolute trash, and it is now my greatest cheer leader and strength. If I can change my inner self talk around, you can too. This episode will teach you how. Get the full show notes at www.trishblackwell.com/585

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0:00.0

Do you have that inner mean voice that no one knows about?

0:04.3

You know, the voice that's always beating yourself up, telling you that you could have done better,

0:09.9

or maybe just putting pressure on yourself?

0:13.7

To lose weight, be cooler, do better, make less mistakes.

0:19.0

Look, we call that voice, your self-talk. The self-talk narrative that you have determines

0:25.4

everything about the level of confidence you feel. Now the great news is you can

0:31.4

change your self-talk. My self-talk used to be absolute trash and it is now my

0:38.6

greatest cheerleader and strength and here's what I'm here to tell you if I can change my inner self talk

0:44.1

so can you in this episode I'm gonna teach you how we're gonna talk about how to

0:49.7

change your inner language how to be kinder to yourself, how to learn to self-encourage instead of

0:56.3

self-criticize, and the art of self-validation.

1:00.5

Buckle up.

1:02.1

This episode in particular is for those of you who put too much

1:04.8

pressure on yourselves. Those of you who you think that pushing yourself harder is

1:09.6

going to get you results and you find yourself frustrated and anxious.

1:13.5

This is an episode for my high achievers,

1:16.3

my type A's, my perfections,

1:18.1

I know about that self-talk.

1:19.5

Why do I know?

1:20.0

Because I had it.

1:21.8

Life can feel so much better. this episode's going to be your first step.

1:26.0

Let's dive in. You're listening to the Confidence Podcast, the go-to coaching

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