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Mental Illness Happy Hour

#700 Choosing Healthier Men - Valerie

Mental Illness Happy Hour

Paul Gilmartin

Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Sexuality

4.86.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 June 2024

⏱️ 113 minutes

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Summary

Valerie is one of Paul’s friends from his support group. She shares stories from her childhood in Rome, which included a philandering and deceptive father. She also digs deep into her own relationship patterns and how she’s trying to break them. 


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0:00.0

Welcome to episode 700 with my guest Valerie that's a pseudonym.

0:07.0

She's a friend of mine from my support group and I really think you're going to like our

0:12.3

conversation.

0:14.0

The website for this show is MetalPod.com.

0:18.6

Oh, and just a preface if you're new, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for

0:24.0

professional medal counseling I'm not a therapist it's a peer-to-peer thingy is that a

0:31.7

technical term, thingy?

0:34.0

Uh, let's jump into some surveys. I know I had some, I always forget what it is and I'm going to say before the survey.

0:45.0

I'm like, oh, I'll remember what that is.

0:48.0

And I can't remember.

0:50.0

And if you enjoy the surveys and you want to become a Patreon donor, there are bonus surveys

0:58.4

every week at the $5 and above donation level. And at the $5.00 and above donation level and at the $20 and above donation level

1:08.3

You can join our Zoom support group which we do every Saturday morning for people in Europe and every

1:15.9

Sunday afternoon for people in the States and it's a really great group of people, a lot of love, a lot of friendship, a lot of support.

1:27.0

And yeah, this is from the Voice in Your Head survey and this is filled out by Lindsay.

1:34.0

And what are some of the things you tell yourself about yourself?

1:39.3

Why can't you just get it together?

1:41.4

If you don't learn how to behave like a well-adjusted adult, you

1:45.0

will never be loved." That's pretty concise. And I'm going to say, I don't know anybody who has ever felt like they got it together.

1:57.0

I think that is an idealized version of ourselves that we never get to.

2:03.4

I think we get glimpses of it.

2:05.6

I think that we can feel reprieve from our

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