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Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

72: Why Did He Suddenly Lose Interest In Sex? Feat. Drew Love

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

55.5K Ratings

🗓️ 17 May 2023

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Did you know that every 7 seconds, a man thinks about sex?
That's more than 500 times an hour and more than 12,000 times a day… And even though that sounds crazy, I’m sure it sounds familiar because this stat has circulated for decades. Now, myth-buster there is no scientific evidence to back this up, and studies that HAVE been done site that men think about sex an average of 19 times a day with the highest number of the study being around 380 thoughts a day and the lowest being once per day (which of course if you’re told to record how much you think about sex you’re gonna think about sex more and at the very least ONCE to note that your only thought about having sex that day was that you never thought about having sex…

Point being, in a society that’s conditioned us to believe that all day men dream about sex, what do we do when the man we’re with doesn’t want to have sex with us? That’s where we’re going on this episode featuring Drew Love. the lead singer of the popular R&B group THEY who just released their album Nu Moon, which is streaming everywhere now.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

It's one of those things where it's not finite like money, right?

0:03.5

Right.

0:04.0

Either you have it or you don't.

0:05.0

Yeah.

0:05.5

When it comes to sex, we in theory have it.

0:08.4

Yeah, we have it.

0:09.3

But for some reason, you just can't.

0:11.5

What was your reason?

0:14.7

Every seven seconds, a man thinks about sex.

0:18.4

That's more than 500 times an hour, and more than 12,000 times a day,

0:22.8

and even though that sounds crazy, I'm sure it sounds kind of familiar

0:27.6

because that stat has circulated for decades.

0:30.9

Mythbuster, there is no scientific evidence to back that up

0:34.5

and studies that have been done on this site that men think about sex

0:38.1

an average of 19 times a day, with the highest number of that group studied

0:42.8

being 380 thoughts a day, and the lowest being once a day.

0:47.3

Which if you think about it, if you're part of a study that says,

0:50.0

record how many times you think about sex a day,

0:52.6

you're going to think about sex at least once that day to note the fact

0:55.2

that you never once thought about sex that day.

0:57.9

Point being, in a society that's conditioned us to believe that all day

1:02.3

men dream about sex, what do you do when you find yourself

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