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🗓️ 8 February 2025
⏱️ 64 minutes
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0:00.0 | All right, what's happening, people? Welcome back to the show. It is the 900th episode of modern |
0:05.9 | wisdom. Big number. Didn't think that I would do 900 of anything. I don't know whether I ever |
0:12.1 | have done 900 of anything. But today I'm going to go through some lessons I've learned over the |
0:16.5 | last 100 episodes from life and from reading and from the show and from other stuff. So you're going to |
0:21.7 | get to learn that. You're also going to get to indulge in this beautiful facial hair for a while. |
0:27.1 | I don't know how long this moustache will last. So it's a limited time offer for you to be |
0:31.4 | able to enjoy it. So bask in the reflective glory of my upper lip. And let's get into it. So the first one, I was trying to put a |
0:40.6 | name to this idea for a while and I came up with unteachable lessons. It's a special category of |
0:46.4 | lesson, one that you can't discover without experiencing it firsthand. So there is a certain subset of advice that for some reason we all refuse to learn |
0:58.7 | through instruction. No matter how arduous or costly or effortful it's going to be for us to find |
1:07.1 | out for ourselves, we prefer to disregard the mountains of warnings that we get from our |
1:13.3 | elders and songs and literature and historical catastrophes and public scandals. And instead, |
1:20.4 | we think some version of, yeah, that might be true for them, but not for me. We decide to learn the hard lessons, the hard way |
1:31.2 | over and over again. And unfortunately, they all seem to be the big things too. It's never |
1:36.6 | insights about how to put a level shelves or charmingly introduce yourself at a cocktail party. |
1:43.3 | Instead, we spend most of our lives learning |
1:46.6 | firsthand the most important lessons that the previous generation already warned us about. |
1:53.2 | Things like money won't make you happy, or fame won't fix your self-worth, or you don't love that pretty girl she's just hot and difficult to get. |
2:05.4 | Or nothing is as important as you think it is when you're thinking about it. |
2:09.7 | You will regret working too much. |
2:12.7 | Worrying isn't improving your performance. |
2:15.7 | All of your fears are a waste of time. You should see your parents |
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