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#905 - William von Hippel - Why Modern Life Can Feel So Empty

Modern Wisdom

Chris Williamson

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.74.6K Ratings

🗓️ 20 February 2025

⏱️ 94 minutes

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Summary

William von Hippel is a psychologist, professor, and author. Modern life feels so complex that even basic emotions like happiness seem distant. Were we happier as hunter-gatherers, with more connection and autonomy? If so, how do these prehistoric needs shape our well-being today? Expect to learn if it would be helpful to return back to a simpler hunter & gather time of human evolution, why so many people struggle to be happy, why having autonomy is so important, what happiness research says about how well off hunter-gather tribes were, which forces shape autonomy and connection, why we worship individualism so much, why anxiety is the emotion de jour of the modern world, how to rebalance your own life, and much more… Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period from Shopify at https://shopify.com/modernwisdom Get a 20% discount & free shipping on Manscaped’s shavers at https://manscaped.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM20) Get the Whoop 4.0 for free and get your first month for free at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59 #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

episode 41 was when you were last on the show. And this will be 910 or something maybe. So,

0:10.1

you've been busy. Yeah, it was so of you. But you've barbelled two ends of a half decade of

0:17.1

lots of content. So I was thinking, I just, I just got back from a walk and I was thinking

0:22.6

about your new book. And I had this sort of consideration in my mind, whether it would be

0:27.5

useful for us to still have hunter gatherers living amongst us today, just to remind all of the

0:34.3

modern humans about how good we've got it across human history, this sort of

0:38.4

weird inequality reminder that would sort of be lingering there in the back of our minds.

0:43.0

Yeah, that would be awesome. I mean, we, not long ago, I remember ordering a pizza and it came

0:49.9

with barbecue sauce instead of tomato sauce on my meatloads pizza. And I was just devastated.

0:55.6

I was like, how could this happen to me?

1:00.7

And a couple of hunter-gatherers in our existence, and I would go, oh, who cares about my pizza,

1:01.1

right?

1:02.1

Yeah.

1:08.2

So why, given the fact that, obviously, the joke that everybody hates to hear, I hate to hear it.

1:11.5

I hate to be reminded of my opulent bourgeois,

1:18.0

luxurious, you know, 21st century life. But given the fact that living standards are objectively the best that they've ever been, why is it that so many people are struggling to lead

1:22.7

happy lives despite being relatively blessed? Yeah, that's the sort of shocking fact that got me

1:29.4

started on this book. And I always thought it was everybody else. You know, I read this literature.

1:34.2

I know it very well. Being wealthy doesn't make you happy. And I kind of admit, I felt a little

1:38.8

superior to wealthy people. And I thought, well, you know, here I am, just middle class guy.

1:43.3

If I were wealthy, I would be happier because I would appreciate what I have.

1:47.0

I even remember visiting an old friend and just marveling at his inability to appreciate this extraordinary wealthity to accumulate it since we were kids.

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