Hi friends, so this week we're doing what would Leo do?

You guys want advice about your situations and I'm going to give it to you.

For anyone that's new and this is your first video of mine you're seeing,

hey girl, I hurt people's feelings.

Just a fair warning, like I give people the truth straight up.

The people that know, no, but all of my advice is with the most love I have and all of my

intention is to help you not hurt you. I will hurt your feelings if it means making you better.

Okay, so let's jump into this.

All right, first person said they want to learn how to not be so hyper-independent

and actually rely on people in a healthy way.

So, as someone who also is hyper-independent, if you're hyper-independent it's because

you've learned from experience, people are not dependable.

You have experience that shows people are not reliable.

They don't do what they're going to do, they're not there for you, whatever it is.

So, if you are someone who's been chronically let down by people,

duh, it's dumb as fuck for you to go and try and force yourself to just trust people.

That's like telling a dog that's been abused and kicked by every single human around it

to just go up to another person.

The dog's going to be like, no, not doing it, they're going to kick me again.

That's the dog's association with human beings. So, if you have the same association

with trusting people or asking someone to do something for you, you're going to have

that same reaction of like, no, you're not going to go toward that experience of relying on

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