Hi friends, this week we're doing a what would Leo do?

I'm gonna give you advice on your situation and say how I would handle it.

That's why it's called what would Leo do and tell you what I do.

I want to start this episode off strong so we're going to talk about victim complex

because the first person said, how do you handle people with a victim complex?

So for my experience dealing with people that are trapped in a victim complex,

them throwing away their power and people with a victim complex not seeing their responsibility

or their control in a situation serves them. You don't have to know why.

You just have to understand who you're dealing with and why they're acting the way that they're

acting. So with someone who is trapped in a victim mentality anytime you try and bring them

to the awareness that they are in control or maybe they have contributed to the position

that they're in, they're going to fight you on it and they're going to defend their powerlessness

because it serves them. Like I said, the person you're dealing with does not want to become aware

of their part or what they can do to help themselves. They don't want to become aware of that at all.

Everything you do is going to feel like an attack and it's going to lead to a lot of fights

and a lot of things being miscommunicated but you're probably not communicating in a bad way.

They just do not want to come face to face with the truth and the reality of they're in control

and they can help themselves and their situation whatever's going on and that's a big reason why

my podcast hits with a lot of people and a lot of people love it because you're ready for that step

of going into your power and fixing your situation. You realize the whole powerlessness don't work.

You've realized everything people try and tell you about like it's okay to feel like this and

it's okay for your life to be bad. You can look for justification to stay stuck. You are your

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