Something that separates those who win at the highest level from those who don't.

They have an immense amount of support.

The real support that they have is the person they share their life with.

In fact, Harvard Research found that 99% of your success is tied to your reference group,

which is the five people that you spend the most time with.

Your significant other isn't just part of that group.

They dominate it. By the end of this video, you will have the tools to take a step back, to look at your life

and honestly ask yourself, is the person that I'm with fueling my ambition or are they draining

me of it?

Here's the thing.

I have been there.

I was in a relationship where everything seemed fine on the surface.

At first, this person was super supportive. Over time,

there was these little cracks and little seeds of doubt that I started to notice. The more I grew,

the more this person pulled back. If you and your partner are not aligned, you're not just like

pulling at each other, but you're actively working against each other's goals. And even if it's

unintentional, this creates something that I call mutual sabotage.

Okay, you might think that you're building something, but your efforts are quietly being

dismantled by competing priorities, not to mention resentment.

And so walking away was one of the hardest decisions of my life because at that point

it'd been one of the longest relationships I'd ever been in. But if I look back, it was also the best decision and the most

freeing. Because the moment that I let go of somebody who held me back, I made room for somebody

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