In our culture right now, I honour myself and I confess your sins.

Yeah.

So I try to come across as virtuous and impressive and impressive,

and I call out and accuse everybody else who's doing something wrong.

And that's why we're so miserable.

And the Bible is flipping that round and saying,

no, don't worry about whether you're being honored,

worry about whether other people are being honored.

And don't confess theirs and be most concerned about your own.

And it creates such a different environment when we do that.

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Let's confess our sins to one another.

You go first, Sam.

How long have we gone?

No, we're not going to do that. But, I mean, it is something we're going to talk about with you, Sam, because you talk about that in your book.

You're not crazy.

Gospel sanity for weary churches.

We had a great discussion yesterday talking about what does gospel culture even look like in a church, and we should be the most welcoming and inviting.

Even your definition of gospel.

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