Brené with Drs. John and Julie Gottman on What Makes Love Last

Unlocking Us with Brené Brown

Vox Media Podcast Network

Society & Culture, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.6 • 24.5K Ratings

🗓️ 3 February 2021

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Drs. Julie and John Gottman have taken more than 40 years of breakthrough research and written or co-written more than 40 books on marital stability, divorce prediction, and how science can help people have successful, loving relationships. We talk about the toll the pandemic has taken on couples, their work in the context of current events, and practical shifts that can help us take care of each other. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hi everyone I'm Brinay Brown and this is unlocking S.
0:03.0	Ooh wee, that's all I've got to say.
0:08.0	This podcast gets very personal, very fast. What do you do when you have like Dr. John Gottman and Dr
0:15.9	Julie Gottman on your podcast and you're looking at them on Zoom and you know you're
0:21.2	coming off of the most difficult season of you know a 30 plus year
0:25.8	relationship you're gonna ask some hard questions and let me tell you they've got
0:29.8	answers they're just not what you always want to hear.
0:32.6	They're just what you need to hear.
0:34.6	Dr. Julie and John Gottman talked to us about relationships,
0:37.7	partnerships, couplehood.
0:39.7	They're the experts.
0:41.0	They have 40 years of breakthrough research on marital
0:43.7	stability and divorce prediction and they connect that data to practical
0:48.5	teachings about conflict resolution and creating connection. They demonstrate how science can help people have
0:54.2	successful loving relationships. It's incredible. You know, one of the things that
0:58.3	just really stands out for me about their work, especially as a social scientist,
1:01.8	is that in their research they can
1:03.9	tell within the first three minutes of a couple's interaction the
1:07.5	longevity of a relationship or the health of a relationship. They can do this
1:11.6	within 90% accuracy.
1:14.0	Basically, they can watch you get in a fight with your partner
1:17.0	and within the first three minutes, predict whether you stay together or you don't.
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