#brunchtalk: How Do You Keep The Momentum Going (In Early Dating)?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2024

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

You start talking to someone you're interested in. You get busy. They get busy. And then you start to fear that the connection will just fade out...all before you even met IRL! Join us as we chat about how to keep the momentum going in early stage dating. We're discussing the reasons that things start to fall apart in the first place, the balance of how much to text before meeting up, and ways you can ensure that you're still going on dates even when life gets busy. Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateatable podcast.
0:18.4	Hey friends, welcome to Yummy brunch talk, where we slice into your dating
0:25.0	dating conundrums.
0:27.0	Are these getting che easier and cheisier?
0:29.0	Yes, every passing brush talk, it just gets better not cheesier clearly better I read somewhere
0:36.7	that you should always associate yourself with something that people love and
0:41.6	then whenever they do something they love they'll think of you
0:44.8	so Brunch we did it without even realizing that there was a technique behind it we
0:50.9	just both love Brunch. There's a rhyme and reason to all of this, but we are back for this episode of Brish Talk, where we are going to dissect a question. The question is, how do you not lose momentum
1:05.9	in the talking stage?
1:08.0	Mm.
1:08.9	And for more context, I've been messaging
1:11.9	with a guy for a day or two from the dating apps and we've been trying to set up a date.
1:17.0	Today has just been so hectic and the last thing I want to do is text back.
1:22.0	Will this show disinterest though in the early
1:25.4	stages of talking how do I keep up the momentum even when I'm busy it can sometimes
1:31.3	feel like another job balancing dating too.
1:34.5	And that's probably when people do drop off or lose interest or disappear.
1:39.9	And it's always in the early dating stage. And I remember how sometimes you would get that message,
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