S18E12: Are Long-Term Relationships For Everyone? w/ Ryan Van Duzer

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 15 May 2024

⏱️ 72 minutes

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What happens when you – or the person you're dating – just can't commit to a relationship past the honeymoon stage? We're getting a look inside the mind of return guest Ryan Van Duzer about why he wants to flee once things get serious – even with people he thought were 'The One.' We're discussing the differences of being ready for love versus a relationship, the line of staying true to yourself vs self-sabotaging, and how to tell if someone has the capacity for something more long-term. Follow the Ryan @duzer and check out his adventures on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVcUzl95VwxrIEQnu9xI21g Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	So do you think everyone is cut out for a long-term relationship?
0:03.7	I used to think so, but I certainly don't anymore.
0:08.2	Hi, I'm U.S. Schu.
0:09.7	And I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:11.2	We're active daters turn dating sociologist here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:17.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:20.0	Before we get into this episode a quick word from our sponsors that make it possible
0:27.9	hello friends welcome back to dateable we are here for another great episode this time with a repeat guest.
0:35.6	Someone we had on what was it season season 19 season 8 oh yeah season 8
0:41.6	8 episode 19 wow season 8 episode 19
0:44.0	wow season 8 we're at 18 it's like a lifetime I know it's like a lifetime I know it's like
0:47.8	it's like a lifetime I know it's like season 19 no we're not there we're
0:49.7	we're not there yeah he's in the future. Season 8, episode 19, Mr. Ryan Van Duser, a dear old friend of mine, we met through mutual friends in Beijing actually, we're both traveling in Beijing and it turned out we had a lot of mutual friends even beyond this one mutual friend and we stayed in contact and I was living in New York at the time. He came and visited New York because his brother
1:14.1	also lived in New York.
1:15.4	So we just had this really fun group
1:17.8	and his best friend, one of his best friends
1:20.7	ended up marrying one of my good friends from New York.
1:23.2	I set them up. I'm so really proud of it. They're married with three kids now.
1:26.9	So just saying it worked out really well.
1:28.9	You're Cupid.
1:30.9	It worked out really well. It didn't work out for Ryan. I was not able to set him up with anybody. He doesn't need to be set up with anybody, but that's why we have him on the show.
1:39.0	Because this guy is so interesting. He is an outdoor adventure TV host,
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