#brunchtalk: How Do You Know When To Trust Your Gut?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 24 March 2024

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

When something feels off...is it just your anxiety talking or is this your gut telling you something is very wrong? Whether you're dating someone new or in a long-term relationship, we're discussing a framework to decipher these feelings, how to determine if you're in a "Yue situation" (as the listener so endearingly refers to it), and ways you can actually talk it out instead of jumping to conclusions. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Last Bottle Wines: Get 10% off your first order with the code DATEABLE at https://www.lastbottlewines.com/ Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today at https://hinge.co/ Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ VIIA: Get 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at http://www.badlandsfood.com/dateable Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. It's time for another branch talk where we dive into your dating questions
0:21.3	conundrums, issues, problems, celebrations, whatever it may be related to
0:27.2	dating and we will dissect it as much as we can using our dateable brains.
0:33.4	I thought you were going to be like superpowers because we have them.
0:36.1	Okay, I like that better.
0:37.1	Yes, brains better than superpowers.
0:39.1	I don't know.
0:40.1	Brain is pretty good too. So much to dissect all the time. All the time including this
0:46.6	question for this episode. The question is how do you differentiate between an
0:52.0	anxious attachment response versus trusting your gut?
0:56.0	Ooh, this is a good one and thank you for the listener that wrote in.
1:00.0	They sent very nice review.
1:02.0	So again, call out if you want to get your French talks bumped up
1:05.7	But it says absolutely love this podcast very relatable especially as I re-entered the dating pool a couple years ago.
1:13.5	Would love your thoughts on a topic
1:16.1	about anxious attachment versus trust of your gut.
1:19.0	And then the listener continues to say,
1:21.0	especially after the situation like you a experienced. How do you
1:25.5	differentiate between the two? I still go back to Nicky Novo's episode when we
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