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Calm Parenting Podcast

Child Who Argues, Melts Down Over Losing, Bosses Siblings?

Calm Parenting Podcast

Kirk Martin

Education, Social Sciences, Science, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 22 September 2024

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Child Who Argues, Melts Down Over Losing, Bosses Siblings? Do you have a child who is bossy, melts down over changes in plans or when little things go wrong? Acts like a sore loser when playing games? Collects little stones and acorns in their pant pockets? Wears the same clothes and eats the same foods? Likes to say, “That’s not fair!” and won’t stop following you until they prove their point? Has difficulty with executive function and following directions? Struggle with anxiety over new experiences? Good. Kirk explains why all of these behaviors have the same root…and similar solutions. Our Back-To-School Sale Continues This Week. Don't begin the school year with power struggles. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/products/ to purchase the Get Everything Package at the lowest prices of the year. AG1 Visit https://drinkAG1.com/calm for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase. SIMPLISAFE Protect your home this summer with 20% off any new SimpliSafe system when you sign up for Fast Protect Monitoring. Just visit https://simplisafe.com/calm. AIR DOCTOR AirDoctor comes with a 30-day money back guarantee so if you don’t love it, just send it back for a refund, minus shipping! Head to https://airdoctorpro.com/ and use promo code CALM and you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! PHYLA Tackle acne’s root causes for clearer, healthier skin for your child. Get 25% off your first order of Phyla with the code CALM. Go to https://phyla.com and type in the code CALM. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

So do you have a child who is bossy with siblings, friends, and you, who melts down over

0:06.3

changes and plans during transitions or when little things go wrong, who acts like a sore loser when playing games.

0:15.0

Maybe you've got a little one who collects little stones and acorns in their pockets,

0:20.0

only to be found once they're banging around the dryer.

0:24.0

Or maybe you have a child who wears the same clothes every day and eats the same foods.

0:29.0

It's oftentimes simple carbs, mac and cheese and chicken nuggets because of anxiety.

0:33.0

Some of you have kids who say that's not fair and they won't stop following you around

0:39.0

until they prove their point.

0:41.0

Some of you married someone like that. What about kids who have

0:44.4

difficulty with executive functioning skills and following directions? And I know a lot of you have

0:51.2

kids who struggle with anxiety over new experiences.

0:56.0

Good, all of these behaviors have the same root cause and that is what we are going to discuss on today's episode the

1:04.7

Calm Parenting Podcast so welcome this is Kirk Martin founder celebrate Calm

1:08.1

you can find us at celebrate Calm.com look even if your child doesn't struggle with one of the examples I go through, I hope you

1:16.0

will extract some key principles you can apply to your own specific situations and for some of you these situations are coming

1:26.2

in your future. So you have kids who have busy brains. Their brains are

1:31.5

always swirling with thoughts and ideas and their brains

1:35.3

run really fast and it feels kind of chaotic in there. Like they don't have

1:40.2

control over it. And then some of you have kids who have sensory processing issues

1:46.3

so it kind of feels like their bodies are out of control and that's why we like doing a lot of sensory exercise

1:52.4

building little obstacle courses in the backyard,

1:55.7

so that to crawl under and over things, moving heavy objects, doing martial arts, swimming, rock climbing,

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