Defiance, De-Escalation, & Discipline

Calm Parenting Podcast

Kirk Martin

Education, Social Sciences, Science, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2024

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Defiance, De-Escalation, & Discipline Your child is being defiant, mouthy, yelling at you, taking things out on siblings, or just not listening. These situations often blow up into full scale family meltdowns! How can you de-escalate emotional situations and then discipline in a way that actually works…without making excuses or letting your child get away with things? Kirk gives you concrete action steps. Our Back-To-School Sale Continues This Week. Don't begin the school year with power struggles. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/products/ to purchase the Get Everything Package at the lowest prices of the year. AG1 Visit https://drinkAG1.com/calm for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase. SIMPLISAFE Protect your home this summer with 20% off any new SimpliSafe system when you sign up for Fast Protect Monitoring. Just visit https://simplisafe.com/calm. AIR DOCTOR AirDoctor comes with a 30-day money back guarantee so if you don’t love it, just send it back for a refund, minus shipping! Head to https://airdoctorpro.com/ and use promo code CALM and you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! PHYLA Tackle acne’s root causes for clearer, healthier skin for your child. Get 25% off your first order of Phyla with the code CALM. Go to https://phyla.com and type in the code CALM. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	So your
0:05.0	spouse, mouthy, yelling at you or your spouse, taking things out on siblings, or just not listening,
0:08.0	and these situations often blow up into full-scale
0:12.0	family meltdowns with everybody upset.
0:16.3	So how can you de-escalate emotional situations and then discipline in a way that actually works without excusing your child,
0:25.0	without letting them get away with things.
0:28.0	That is what we're going to discuss on this episode, the Calm Parenting Podcast.
0:32.0	So welcome, this is Kirkmart
0:33.7	founder of Celebrate Calm. You can find is at Celebrate Calm.com. So there were
0:38.3	times when our strong-willed son Casey would take out his frustration on my wife. He'd get upset and yell at her and this is pretty
0:46.2	common with our kids especially after school. So there are many different responses
0:51.5	but here are two common responses to this.
0:54.9	You know what I do so much for you. I make special meals for you. I run you around
1:01.4	everywhere. I work hard to pay for your your gymnastics or cheer or
1:06.3	soccer camps and I make your life so easy and this is how you're going to treat me?
1:12.5	It can take in many different forms, right?
1:14.2	Like, I can't believe you would talk to me like that way
1:16.7	after everything I do for you, right?
1:19.0	When I was a kid, if I would have done this,
1:20.6	I would have gotten all those different things speak of a lot of resentment
1:24.4	for some of you and this can be a husband or a wife okay so don't get hung up on the gender here
1:31.6	and how I'm doing this but there can be a lifetime of feeling like
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