Coaching Our Children: Self-Authoring, Belonging, and Personal Authority

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 978 Ratings

🗓️ 14 November 2023

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

As parents, we are hardwired to focus on our child’s wellbeing. Early on, this inclination serves our children well but, as they grow, if our relationship with them doesn’t evolve to make room for their emerging autonomy, we will keep them from developing the capacities they need to flourish in adulthood and navigate the increasingly complex world around them. As scary as it is to step back and watch as our children take more ownership of their lives and choices, and as hard as it is to watch their inevitable missteps along the way, doing so is fundamental to their growth and development. In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tom Telford, Liza Telford, and Preston Niederhauser, hosts of the BrainSTOKE podcast, to give parents helpful guidance on how they can be loving, wise mentors as their children stumble through the sometimes turbulent transition into adulthood. Listen to the full episode to learn more about: * Fostering your child’s capacity to self-author * Fitting in vs belonging * Establishing guardrails for our kids and knowing when and how to adjust those guardrails * Overcoming resentment about our own lack of self-authoring

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0:00.0	Welcome to Braintoke. I'm Tom Telford with Preston Niederhauser. We have amazing guests with us today.
0:07.0	We are going to have Dr. Jennifer Finlason Fife join us.
0:12.0	She is an amazing... Jennifer Finlayson Fife join us.
0:13.0	She is an amazing clinical therapist.
0:16.8	In my opinion, she's an influencer.
0:19.2	There's such a following based on her expertise in the mental health space specifically specializing in
0:26.8	human sexuality and marriage counseling as a licensed clinical professional
0:32.1	counselor.
0:33.8	Welcome, Dr. Jennifer.
0:36.1	Thanks for having me.
0:37.7	Absolutely.
0:39.2	So Dr. Jennifer, we had the opportunity
0:42.1	to hear you live last week in Moab.
0:45.6	We actually left that conference and went to Las Vegas, where my daughter and I actually
0:51.7	heard and saw Ad Dell in person.
0:54.6	And admittedly, I have to say who is better.
0:58.6	And I say that somewhat of a joke is a lead in but as I sat in the audience in Moab
1:07.2	listening to you I had to look around and just notice these people are as engaged as I've ever seen.
1:15.0	And I think it's because one, the topic of relationships is so broad and so critical to the enjoyment of life, but to you truly have a gift for how you deliver your expertise in the clinical knowledge of relationships.
1:34.3	So we are stoked to have you.
1:36.2	This truly is a little bit of a starstruck moment, so thank you for being here.
1:40.0	Well, thanks for having me.
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