Common Misconceptions About Secure Attachment - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 478
Relationship School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 19 December 2023
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
Everyone wants to be in a securely attached relationship, but what does secure attachment really look like? In this episode, Jayson and Ellen talk about secure attachment and address some common misconceptions. How can you know the difference between infatuation and secure attachment? How long does it take to develop secure attachment in a romantic relationship? How do securely attached relationships differ between different couples? Tune in to learn how you can create and maintain long-lasting and meaningful partnerships.
Timestamps:
- 2:00 - Secure attachment vs. infatuation
- 5:21 - How long does it take to know if you’re securely attached?
- 8:59 - Working through the challenge stage
- 11:26 - Misconceptions about secure attachment
- 20:25 - Make sure you both want the same type of relationship
- 23:02 - Action steps
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| 0:00.0 | You could do a lot of quote-unquote unconventional things and be a secure functioning couple. I just really I like want people to get that Hey Jason Gatis here. Welcome to the Relationship School |
| 0:18.0 | podcast. This show focuses on human behavior, psychology and |
| 0:21.5 | relationships. It's for people who are into growth in development. |
| 0:24.4 | It's for people who wrestle with the paradox of self-acceptance and self-mastery. |
| 0:29.6 | If you want to gain more self-awareness, have a better relationship with yourself, and more fulfilling |
| 0:33.7 | relationships with others, this show is for you. |
| 0:37.1 | It's my belief and my experience that your life satisfaction, your health and well-being, and your |
| 0:41.8 | longevity will be determined by how much confidence you have in your most important relationships |
| 0:46.8 | including the one with yourself |
| 0:49.3 | Yo yo as you know I've dedicated my life to helping people with their relationships, right? |
| 0:55.7 | I want to solve this problem so that all of you can work through your differences and have fulfilling |
| 1:01.1 | amazing badass partnerships and relationships, family, coworkers, |
| 1:05.4 | friends, whoever. |
| 1:07.6 | And I have trained a ton of relationship coaches, almost 100 certified |
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| 1:16.1 | work through your relationship challenges. |
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