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🗓️ 12 December 2023
⏱️ 47 minutes
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0:00.0 | Welcome to Conversations with Dr. Jennifer, a collection of interviews on the topics of relationships, sexuality, and more, all featuring Dr Finlason Fife. |
0:20.0 | Okay, can you talk a little bit about your approach with therapy? I think it's, it's a little |
0:27.8 | bit unique and different, and I've heard you kind of explain it before in podcast before, |
0:32.4 | like what you see your role is but we |
0:35.2 | articulated a little bit like what's your role when you're helping a couple or an individual |
0:40.3 | person like what is it that you're doing so that you can be a most help for them? |
0:45.0 | Yeah. |
0:46.0 | Well, it's kind of funny because I've done what I have intuitively felt was right, which isn't particularly conventional and I have found a theory |
0:57.1 | that explains what I was doing. Like you started doing it before you were |
1:01.6 | yeah well that's not entirely fair because I was listening to people |
1:05.3 | whose approach really resonated with me. |
1:08.0 | Dr. Schnarish is one of them. |
1:09.6 | Terry Reel's approach is more differentiation-based, but I but it's not like, it's, how to say it, it's not that I was looking |
1:18.0 | for someone who teaches differentiation, it was I was looking for an approach that felt like it fit my experience of change. |
1:27.2 | And I have since come across a theorist of adult development that also explains what I have observed myself and so it's kind |
1:38.7 | of cool to see that come together. But what I think, I think a lot of approaches around therapy and change are about |
1:50.0 | sympathy empathy compassion letting sympathy, empathy, empathy, compassion, letting people feel their feelings, giving people a sounding |
1:58.1 | board, and understanding why people do the things they do, I mean that's a lot of |
2:04.5 | psychodynamic Freudian-based theory is that if people kind of understand their |
2:11.3 | defenses and why they are doing things, you know, it can explain |
2:15.2 | adult behavior, all of which is true. I mean you can say, yeah, I do this because this |
2:20.1 | happened and that makes sense why I do it. But it doesn't necessarily lead to change. |
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