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Dad Tired

Embracing Vulnerability, Handling Criticism, and The Pain of Parenting with Matthew West

Dad Tired

Jerrad Lopes

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

5 • 1.4K Ratings

🗓️ 14 October 2024

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Jerrad Lopes of Dad Tired and singer-songwriter Matthew West team up for a heartfelt and impactful conversation. The pair dive into fatherhood, faith, and how their journeys have shaped them as husbands, dads, and men of God.

Highlights:

  1. Blending Two Worlds: Dad Tired Meets The Matthew West Podcast
    Jerrad Lopes and Matthew West kick off the episode with a lighthearted exchange about their first-ever podcast crossover. They reflect on how they met backstage at one of Matthew’s concerts and how their connection with mutual friend Micah Tyler led to this collaboration.

  2. The Birth of Dad Tired: Jerrad's Journey
    Jerrad shares the raw story behind the creation of Dad Tired, recounting the darkest season of his life when he was ready to walk away from ministry, marriage, and fatherhood. A moment of grace from his wife shifted everything, leading to a viral blog post and the start of the Dad Tired movement.

  3. Marriage in Crisis: How God's Kindness Saved It
    In a vulnerable moment, Jerrad opens up about the time he considered divorce, only to be stopped in his tracks when his wife shared how she had been praying for his heart to return to Jesus. This moment was the catalyst for restoring his marriage and reigniting his faith.

  4. Why Vulnerability Matters: Encouraging Dads to Be Real
    Matthew and Jerrad discuss the power of vulnerability, especially for men, and how sharing their struggles and emotional moments—like crying as dads—can create a deeper connection with their families and audience. They swap stories about shedding tears while dropping their kids off at school and the emotions that come with being a father.

  5. Handling Criticism and Staying Focused on the Mission
    Both hosts reflect on their experiences with online criticism and cancel culture, particularly when stepping into sensitive topics. Jerrad shares his strategy for staying focused on the mission of pointing people to Jesus, despite the noise of negativity. Matthew recounts a time when he faced backlash for a song and how his family rallied around him.

  6. Raising Kids in a World Full of Lies: Discipleship and Truth
    Jerrad shares his approach to discipling his kids in today’s culture. He emphasizes the importance of teaching them to recognize truth according to God’s design while also instilling joy in their hearts. Both hosts talk about how they strive to create homes filled with joy and faith, despite the challenges of parenting in today's world.

  7. Spiritual Leadership: Life-on-the-Go Discipleship
    Jerrad explains his philosophy on discipleship, focusing on Deuteronomy 6’s "as you go" approach. He encourages dads to look for everyday, spontaneous moments to disciple their kids, rather than feeling pressure to have polished, planned devotionals. Matthew chimes in, reflecting on his own experience of balancing ministry, family, and fatherhood.

  8. Exciting New Ventures for Both Hosts
    Jerrad and Matthew close the episode by discussing their latest projects. Jerrad announces his role as the new co-host of Footbahlin with Ben Roethlisberger and his upcoming daily devotional podcast for men on the K-Love platform. Matthew reflects on the journey of balancing music, podcasting, and fatherhood, expressing his gratitude for the encouragement Jerrad gave him to keep his podcast going.

Connect with Jerrad Lopes:

  • Website: Dad Tired
  • Instagram: @dad.tired
  • Podcast: Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and wherever you get your podcasts.

Connect with Matthew West:

Resources Mentioned:

  • Dad Tired Books (Available on Amazon)
  • Footbahlin with Ben Roethlisberger Podcast

This inspiring crossover episode is a must-listen for dads looking for real talk about fatherhood, faith, and staying true to their mission in life. Tune in for laughter, tears, and practical wisdom for everyday life as a Christian dad.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey guys, welcome back to the Dad Tired podcast. If you're watching on YouTube or Spotify, you can see I have a puppy in my lap.

0:09.2

For some reason I thought four kids wasn't crazy enough.

0:12.7

So I decided to add to the chaos.

0:14.3

I'm not that smart.

0:17.2

Really fun conversation today with Matthew West.

0:20.3

Obviously, super talented, has won many awards, but just fun to get to know him on another level outside of the music.

0:26.3

I think you're going to really enjoy our conversation.

0:28.8

We hit a lot of topics on this conversation that I think you're going to find fascinating.

0:34.0

Before we jump into that, I do want to thank my friends over at Samaritan's Purse for sponsoring today's episode.

0:39.0

Samaritan's Purse, I've been a big fan of theirs for a long time.

0:42.0

They're part of, or they have a project called Operation Christmas Child. I have done Operation Christmas Child for many, many years, even before I was married. I was packing shoeboxes at churches, even back all the way back in California and always been a big

0:55.8

fan of their ministry you've probably heard of this if you've been around the

0:58.9

church world for a while you've probably heard about their their project

1:01.9

Operation Christmas Child where you pack these shoeboxes either as a family or a community group or a church and then they get sent off to the world.

1:08.0

But Loehlen I actually had an opportunity to join Samaritan's purse Operation Christmas Child in Grenada, one of the islands,

1:16.2

and to see exactly how these boxes get delivered and then like what happens.

1:21.2

And it was a whole, like it was legitimately one of the top five best

1:26.3

experiences of my life and I'm not exaggerating when I say that I could I already

1:30.4

believed in this ministry and I now support them like a million times even more.

1:36.4

Just being able to see specifically what they are doing with these kids and the way that they're

1:40.0

using the shoeboxes as a method for discipleship proclaiming the gospel.

1:44.8

It is incredible.

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