And I think that just totally locks everything into place in a lot better, healthier way that just prevents a ton of the very classic little landmines that people step in when they kind of invite someone in the home to live with them and work and stuff.

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So we had a good conversation in our Facebook group.

Nathan asked, Jeremy, I know episode 17, which is, man,

going way back, Nathan. Wow. You must be starting at the beginning. Five-in-a-Fotherhood was on

hiring help in the home. I would love to hear an episode on finding, screening, interviewing,

in the language and practical parts of the process. So one of the things

that Jeff and I have both done and have really tried to figure out is what does it look like

when you're starting to have more children than maybe just you and your spouse can handle on your

own? Is there a good way to sort of begin to hire somebody to assist the household?

So I'll give you a couple thoughts, and then, Jeff, I'd love to hear your thoughts.

One is that we like to call this person a household assistant as opposed to a nanny or something

like that.

So because the idea is we don't know exactly what jobs we're going to give you.

There are going to be jobs that help the household as a whole.

It's not necessarily all going to be related directly to watching the kids so that we can

go do something better or something else.

So that's one thought.

The second one that really is a big part of our process was to, we often, most people can't

afford to pay something like this hourly. So what they will do, most people will set up a room

in their house and say in exchange for the room, you will help our family

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