Okay, I had two thoughts. I wonder what you ladies think about this. One, is that in my experience,

I frequently find that men don't seem to be caring as much, not to immediately make this gender

wars. I'm sorry. I frequently find that there is less probing of the politics of the female

partner in a heterosexual relationship. And two, I find myself with liberals who

see us as agreeing on something like everyone should have health care, but like the method point,

like how we get there or whether or not we treat it as kind of an abstract aspiration,

versus something that we should be voting toward and moving toward

in any sort of material way causes some of the biggest blowups that I've seen in my personal life.

You want John Marco to be fighting actively with his girlfriend.

No, no, no. You know the fight I'm talking about.

I'll use the example of the parents of a partner because my partners have been pretty

lefty of late.

But they'll say things like, yeah, yeah, I totally agree with you, Brianna.

Like, we sure we want Medicare for all, but we're not going to get it anytime soon.

And so therefore, vote for Biden or whoever it is, do you know what I mean?

That's a nice thing that it's a nice problem to have, how to work it out with your in-laws,

as opposed to your partner, and also how to work out, like, how to get Medicare for all,

as opposed to whether we deserve it. But you asked a bunch of different interesting questions,

and I'll just jump in,

unless Kate, you have a more focused response. But I'm happy to jump in with my ADHD response,

whichever you guys want. Go ahead. Okay. So it's easier for me to conceive of dating someone who is

apolitical than who disagrees with me even a little bit. Like,

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