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How to Be a Girl

Episode III: How Old is Gender?

How to Be a Girl

Marlo Mack

Kids & Family

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 8 July 2014

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Am I insane?  How can I be so sure that my young child is transgender?

Music credits: "Her Love Comes in Air" by soundZcapa, "Gato" by Rod Hamilton, "Kaikou" by Satori.

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0:00.0

How old are we when we know what gender we are?

0:08.0

One, two, three, four, five, six.

0:15.0

That's my daughter.

0:17.0

She's six years old.

0:19.0

She's transgender. transgender.

0:26.0

She was born with male parts.

0:29.0

But as soon as she learned to talk,

0:32.0

she told me she was actually a girl.

0:37.6

After an agonizing year of wondering what to do,

0:42.2

her dad and I chose to have a happy girl rather than a miserable boy.

0:46.8

So we switched to female pronouns and let her change your name.

0:53.0

I know what you're thinking.

0:55.0

What?

0:56.0

You're thinking, can a six-year-old really know that she's transgender?

1:04.0

Isn't the kid awfully young to be assigning labels like that?

1:08.0

Yeah.

1:10.0

Hmm. I see your point.

1:13.0

He's three and a point.

1:15.0

He's three and a half.

1:20.0

He's seven months old now.

1:22.0

He's seven months old now. He? Yes, it's a he.

1:25.0

We chose not to find out until he was born.

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