Fan Mail Friday #89 | Explore the Edges

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.7 • 11K Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2016

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to it! In this episode: Unless Kimberly Seltzer or Duana Welch have time in their busy schedules to help us out, we acknowledge our advice to women sometimes misses the mark -- and we apologize. We have a listener set us straight on what we should have said to 'Soldier' on Fan Mail Friday #84. As Philip McKernan told us earlier this week, what you're good at doing doesn't always align with what you want to be doing. How do you find the time to assess if your talents are keeping you away from your purpose? What is the appropriate way to respond to questions you don't want to answer? Here's some support and advice to Fan Mail Friday #87's Monica from a listener who knows a thing or two about the liability of a toxic family that can't get over the mistakes you've made in the past even as you make incredible personal improvements. Think you've touched on something that ignites the pursuit of something more fulfilling than your current path? Explore the edges. Quick shoutouts to Emma B. in Thailand and her brother in New Zealand who discuss new episodes of AoC, and Christian Nixon from Trinidad and Tobago -- who sent me some ideas for taking better naps! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]! Don't like to shop for clothes? Let Five Four Club be your personal fashion stylist. Complete a short style quiz and receive a monthly curated package at your doorstep! Go to fivefourclub.com and use promo code CHARM at sign-up to get 50% off your first package! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-89-explore-the-edges/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Art of Charm. I'm your host Jordan Harman, I'm here with producer Jason to Philip
0:04.4	Oh here at the Art of Charm. We may not have all the answers
0:07.3	But we certainly have some of the questions and today on fan mail Friday those questions come from you
0:12.1	If you're new to the Art of Charm podcast fan mail Friday in my opinion not the best place to start because most of our content is
0:18.8	More in-depth. It's a longer format so check out the best of at the Art of Charm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at the Art of Charm.com
0:27.4	slash toolbox or if you've got our app you see separate tabs for those there in your iPhone
0:32.0	We've got fundamentals there body language nonverbal communication attraction negotiation networking influence persuasion everything
0:39.2	We teach here at the Art of Charm and we'll send that to your inbox if you text charmed that C-A-J-R-M-E-D
0:45.1	2-3-3-4-4-4 here in the USA
0:48.2	Everywhere else just go to the Art of Charm.com. All right. Let's cut to it. Hi Jordan
0:52.8	I wanted to drop you a note after I listened to the latest fan mail Friday with Kim
0:56.2	I was really disappointed in the answer you provided to the woman who is nicknamed soldier
1:00.5	I know you were hesitant to offer the where heels solution
1:03.9	But the fact that there was no alternative advice was kind of shocking
1:07.5	She could have tried yoga or taken a dance class
1:09.7	So also maybe to get her to move differently start journaling or take a writing course something to get her to tap into her emotions
1:16.1	Arts ceramics music geez so many options put on heels was not only the lazy way out
1:22.4	It is so detrimental to her as a woman wearing heels is the expectation of the patriarchal society. We are trying to change
1:29.6	I'm not meaning to scold but I bet a larger portion of your audience than you know is female
1:34.0	I just started listening and heard about it from a female friend
1:37.4	You have a great opportunity to give strong advice to women who need it spinning the same patriarchal BS is not only hurtful to the women listening
1:45.2	But also the men you are setting standards
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