Fearless Sexuality: Overcoming Unwanted Porn Use

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 978 Ratings

🗓️ 18 January 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

**Dr. Finlayson-Fife will be hosting a Facebook Live for singles on January 27th at 1 PM MT, click HERE to join our Facebook Group so you can participate!** When dealing with unwanted porn use or unwelcome sexual feelings, it’s easy to feel victimized by our environment and choices. But it’s important to know that the way that we frame these behaviors MATTERS. Certain framing leaves us feeling powerless and that we have little control over our behavior. But when we shift to a more agentic frame and take deeper responsibility for our lives and choices, we open ourselves up to making decisions that are more in line with our higher selves. In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Taylor Chambers MS, LMFT to discuss unwanted porn use and how our framing of the behavior can make all the difference. They also discuss how honesty with ourselves and our partner can open us up to more sexual fulfillment and connection. Listen to the full episode to learn more about: Addiction framing vs Agentic framing Sexuality as a mechanism for personal development Coming to peace with your sexuality Honesty and its role in our relationships Positive ways to respond to unwanted sexual thoughts/feelings Trust vs Trustworthiness

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0:00.0	Welcome to Conversations with Dr. Jennifer, a collection of interviews on the topics of relationships, sexuality, and more, all featuring Dr. Finlason Fife.
0:21.0	Hello everyone, my name is Taylor Chambers and welcome to this next step on your
0:26.3	pilgrimage from unwanted porn use to fearless sexuality.
0:30.9	Today I am joined by Dr. Jennifer Finlason Fife. So thank you for being here.
0:35.6	First of all.
0:36.6	Yeah, I'm really excited. You're very well respected speaker and thinker and so I know you'll you'll bring tremendous
0:44.8	insights and value to our viewers here. So by way of introduction, Dr. Finlayson
0:51.0	Fife you are an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a PhD in counseling psychology.
0:58.0	So, quite a bit of education and information. This is not just someone who's passionate
1:05.8	about it. You're incredibly well informed and I think very much a thought leader in the
1:12.0	LDS community.
1:14.0	And you're based in Chicago, but much of your work is online.
1:18.5	You do a handful of online courses.
1:21.5	And my wife and I have taken a couple of these and watched them together.
1:25.1	The only problem is that for every hour of content we spend two hours getting through it.
1:30.5	We're constantly pushing pause and talking and figuring things out.
1:34.0	Sometimes I'll push pause and I'll just like stare at the corner of the ceiling and just
1:38.0	process for a little bit and then we'll resume.
1:40.0	So, but it's very much a way of getting my wife and I but also everyone I would
1:48.2	suspect a way of thinking deeper and really reflecting. It's been very valuable.
1:52.3	So I'm great. I'm so glad. deeper and really reflecting. It's been very valuable.
1:52.8	So.
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