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The Roys Report

Finding Jesus After Church Trauma

The Roys Report

Julie Roys

Religion & Spirituality, Philosophy, Society & Culture, Christianity

4.6714 Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2025

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Mary DeMuth shares her journey of experiencing harm in a Dallas megachurch, but finding Jesus and healing in the wreckage.  

Transcript

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0:00.0

Oh, I can't tell you how many times I have heard the argument, oh, well, God is obviously

0:06.0

blessing this institution because look at how many are coming through the doors. Therefore,

0:12.0

you cannot attack God's anointed because look at all the people that have been helped.

0:18.0

There are cults with large numbers too. Are we saying that God's blessing them?

0:22.7

It's the wrong thing. We're looking at these magnanimous things of, oh, God must be in this because

0:29.4

it's so big. But we have neglected to say, actually, when God is in a thing, it is the fruit of the spirit.

0:38.3

Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, all those things.

0:45.3

That is the measure of a ministry.

0:49.0

We need fewer CEO pastors and more actual shepherds.

0:53.3

Thank you. CEO pastors and more actual shepherds. I'm going to begin with a story.

1:13.6

And this word here, bewilderment, I think, is something to talk about.

1:20.6

When I was talking with Julie about what we went through with our recent church, that was the word that came up. And so I haven't talked other than to her.

1:33.1

I haven't talked much publicly about it, so just bear with me because it's still a bit fresh.

1:40.2

But this next picture that you're going to see kind of typifies what our church had become.

1:46.3

This is a screen grab from my former church in that white circle is the pastor.

1:56.5

And you can see the iconography here of the fact that the pastor's head and the glowing around

2:05.1

him is bigger than the baby Jesus and is bigger than Jesus dying on the cross.

2:11.8

And that really typifies what had become of our church.

2:16.1

I'm already nervous because I'm going to get in trouble for this.

2:18.8

But okay, here we are. We're all here together. I'm going to get in trouble.

2:27.8

Thank you. You know, I'm thinking about Acts 2.6. At this sound, the multitude came together,

2:38.9

and they were bewildered because each one was hearing them speak in his own language. When the church

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