Hello, hello everybody. Welcome back to another episode of Fluently Fixed, coming to you about 10 hours late because here in Colorado, they could not fluently fix the tunnel on I-70. So I am home a little bit late. And we are diving in. I want to say also real quick, shout out to everybody who has written in, of course, in the episode show notes and over on

Instagram.

In the highlights, you can get access to a Google form for anything that you want to submit

for Fluently Fixed.

We have a bunch of fun, intriguing submissions for today.

Keep them coming.

Hopefully we can, you know, eventually get to everyone's as we keep doing these monthly.

So, weekly, weekly.

I'm all over the place. It's been a long road trip getting back here. But you know what?

Let's fix ourselves. And let's dive into the first question. Somebody said,

Hi, Shannon. I'm a college student. And during exam season, I hooked up with a guy in my friend

group. We're now back at uni. And I thought that things would be back where they were, but he straight up looks through me, ignores me, and is really rude, it kind of

hurts. I wasn't in love with him or anything. It was just a fling, but we were friendly online

afterwards, so now I have no clue what's going on. I don't know what to do about it. Should I ignore him back? Should I act as if he weren't there or should I confront him about it?

I tried to spark friendly conversation with him and his friend the other day, but he didn't even look at me. So I shut it off because I didn't want to seem too eager or desperate.

Okay. God, this ask makes my heart hurt because first of all, it's not you. I've been there. Literally all of my friends in college,

like this is such a classic college thing to go through. And I don't know why guys are,

sometimes it's like they don't want to date you. So rather than just be like, hey, I'm not

looking for a relationship. Let's chat. You know, blah, blah, blah. They act as if you're a ghost.

And it's just so honestly disrespectful, blah, blah, blah. They act as if you're a ghost, and it's just so

honestly disrespectful and hurtful and also crazy. Like, we're in college studying for the rest of our

lives and you are not equipped enough to handle how to treat someone after a hookup. They should

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