Hello and welcome back to advice session. A series here on Anything Goes where you send in your

current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on and I give you my unprofessional advice.

And today we are revisiting a topic, a topic that we've discussed before, the topic of friendship.

And I feel like the topic of friendship is bountiful.

There's never-ending conversations to have about friendship because friendship is complicated.

It's constantly in flux. We're constantly making new friends, cutting off other friends,

dreaming to have a larger friend group, kind of wishing we could

scale down the friend group. You know, like we're constantly evolving our social circle.

And because of that, it's this bottomless pit of conversation. What a beautiful thing that is.

Without further ado, let's begin.

Somebody said, how do I find the balance between asking others to make plans and expecting

others to ask me? That is a great question, because ideally, you don't have to strike a balance.

It just sort of happens naturally.

When the stars are aligned for whatever reason, this is not even a thought that crosses

your mind.

You know, it's kind of a beautiful thing when a friendship is so locked in that you don't

even have to play the game.

And honestly, I think that's ideal. Same thing with

romantic relationships. Ideally, we find somebody that we don't have to play the game with.

You know, we're not sort of being like, well, they asked me last time. So I guess I asked this time.

Ideally, we're finding somebody that allows us to be intuitive in our friendship. Like, oh, I'm, I'm going to go shopping.

Maybe I should invite so-and-so. You know, ideally, we're finding somebody who invites us to

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