How to Be a Better Husband—One Question with BT

The Aggressive Life with Brian Tome

Crossroads

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9 • 756 Ratings

🗓️ 25 February 2025

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

The phrase “how to be a better husband” is Googled nearly 2x as much as “how to be a better wife.” Why is that? And how do you know if you’ve found a good answer? With nearly 40 years of experience, BT gives his perspective on that question. To be a better husband, he believes it involves seeing your marriage as a team, spending your energy toward it, having a plan, and making space for fun together.

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0:00.0	My nose is itchy dirt. I don't know why my nose is itchy.
0:04.0	We cut it. It's fine.
0:05.0	Did you just, like, maybe your dirt pollen is getting in the air and itching my nose.
0:10.0	I didn't snort cocaine. I didn't. I was just, you're making me itchy here.
0:14.0	Where was I?
0:16.0	The spiritual next level.
0:18.0	Oh, spiritual next level. Thank you, dirt. Thank you, dirt.
0:20.0	Yes, spiritual next level. Oh, spiritual next level. Thank you, Dirt. Thank you, Dirt. Yes, spiritual next level.
0:38.9	Welcome to aggressive life.
0:48.6	Every time I do a Q&A on Instagram, about half or more than half of the questions are about marriage.
0:57.3	And what I also find interesting is if you look at the Google queries, how to be a better husband is two times more popular than how to be a better wife. Now, maybe that's because wives are
1:04.9	Googling that for their husbands. I don't know. I don't think so. But I figure I'd just talk
1:10.4	about marriage for a little bit,
1:11.9	maybe from the man's perspective,
1:13.9	since that's what gets asked most often.
1:18.0	If you want to be a better husband,
1:19.4	it starts off with this.
1:20.4	You have to recognize you have to realize
1:22.0	the most important team you will ever be on
1:25.6	is the one with your wife. Bar none, far and away, the most important
1:32.7	decision you make in your life is going to be who to get married to. Don't get married to your
1:39.0	soulmate because you'll never get married because you won't find one. Just make sure you get
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