Hey, my friend, welcome back to another episode of The School of Greatness. I'm cited for this

episode because so many people struggle around relationships. I have been one of those individuals.

For most of my life, I struggled. And I think I was in five or six kind of long-term relationships

from, you know, my late teens to my late 30s. So for 20 years,

I was in multiple long-term relationships and I just, man, I struggled. And I thought I figured

it out after every breakup, what to do and that it wasn't my fault and it was someone else's

problem. And man, was I wrong and it took

me a lot of sadness a lot of suffering a lot of pain a lot of harsh lessons through all these

different relationships on what I needed to start shifting to attract harmonious love to attract someone who was the right match for me, and really to

become the person who was the right match for myself. So it was not even actually about

finding someone else who was right for me first. It was really about me becoming the person

I needed to be in order to create healthy boundaries, in order to speak my truth, in order to feel

safe. And then from that space, I feel like I really attracted an incredible person who understood

me, who accepted me, and who saw me. But I wasn't even seeing myself in all my deficiencies

until I started to do a lot of the work. And today I'm sitting down with a

powerful relationship coach and author Gillian Torecki for a conversation about love relationships

and personal growth. And she's got a new book out called It Begins with You. And in this episode,

we dive deep into the incredible takeaways from her book as well as her life experiences.

Because Jillian brings unique insights from both her

professional expertise and personal journey, which is something that I love, including her experience

with divorce and healing her relationship with her father that caused her a lot of pain in intimate

relationships with men. We dive deep into the difference between lust and love

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