If you can't turn your vision, your goals into action, then you're really wasting a lot of time.

It's almost better off not even having those goals because you're really punishing yourself

because it's like you have this vision, but you can't actually turn it into a reality.

And so it can really make you feel even like you're falling deeper into stagnation because

you're not where you want to be. And so when you

create that separation from where you are and where you want to be and you're not making any progress,

that can really cause a lot of self-loathing and it can really lead a man to feel like a weaker

version of himself when he's not progressing. So I want to share with you

what my sort of transformation was when it came to motivation, goal setting, getting things done.

What many people don't realize is they do have motivation, but it's not being channeled in the

right way because you are motivated to watch TV. You are motivated to play video games. You're

motivated to do all the things that you're doing. The problem is that you're not motivated to watch TV, you are motivated to play video games, you're motivated to do all the things

that you're doing. The problem is that you're not motivated to do things that are difficult.

You're not motivated to do things that have a delayed gratification because the journey seems so

big and so daunting and you probably have this level of wanting it to be done perfectly.

So because of that, you get stuck. You're not

able to make progress. And you sort of spend more time studying, analyzing, gathering data,

you know, really trying to make this thing perfect. But all the while, nothing's really

happening. You know, it's really, you're just living in your head and you're not making

progress on the actual goal. When you rely first on motivation and it doesn't come,

then you don't take action. And if there's no action, then you don't get results. So that's

the backwards approach that the masses of people have. I must have motivation. Therefore,

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