how to stop being a hater

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emma chamberlain

Education, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Personal Journals

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🗓️ 23 February 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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[video available on spotify] i'm a closeted hater. no one knows how much of a hater i am. in fact, the majority of the hating goes on in the privacy of my own mind, and no one even knows it's happening. it's starting to bum me out, and it's just not a good head space to exist in. so i've decided that today, i'm gonna go on the internet, and i'm gonna figure out how to stop being a hater. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	I discuss my morals and values frequently.
0:04.0	Anyone who knows me, anyone who talks to me, knows how important my morals and values are to me.
0:10.8	On the top of my list of priorities are following and abiding by my morals and values, but also
0:18.3	constantly working on in strengthening my morals and values.
0:22.7	This is a key characteristic of me, which is why it's hilarious how bad I am at it sometimes.
0:30.8	Okay, you would think for someone who's so self-aware of their own morals and values that I would
0:36.8	be pretty on it and pretty good about it.
0:39.2	But I'm not.
0:40.8	I'm not.
0:42.0	And I'm constantly like picking up after myself in a way.
0:48.2	I'm constantly finding shortcomings and areas where I'm not abiding by my morals and values, you know,
0:58.3	like I'm not getting there. And I think that that's normal and I think that that's human.
1:03.4	And I'm not particularly angry at myself about it. I think it's to be expected. However, there are times when I sort of deviate from my
1:14.9	morals and my values and it becomes apparent, not because I checked up on it and was like, hey,
1:20.9	you're not really, you're not really doing that. But instead, it pops up for me because it causes me some sort of pain,
1:29.6	right? By not abiding by my morals and values, I have let something slip to a point where
1:35.6	now I'm causing myself pain. Because at least half of my morals and values were created by me to prevent pain, to prevent suffering.
1:51.1	And so there's like a 50-50 chance when I dropped the ball that it might cause pain.
1:57.2	And recently, I noticed that I had dropped the ball in the hater department.
2:04.9	Okay?
2:06.1	It is in my list of morals and values to not be a hater.
2:09.4	I think that's on most people's lists of morals and values.
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