I believe caught and taught both are critically important. There are people who say more is caught

than taught, meaning that the model is more important than the spoken word. I'm going to go bold

here. All right? You ready? I think a reason more is caught than taught is because we don't teach.

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Well, you know, Ann, I was reading this book, and I found something nobody's ever seen before.

Oh, okay. It's in the forward of this book.

And the reason I'm being a little, what's the word I'm looking for?

facetious. Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. Kathy, what's the word I'm looking for? Presidious.

Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.

Kathy, our author, in her book, apparently.

Dr. Kathy Cook.

Yeah, doctor.

And, you know, you just read this to us.

Yes.

So I'm acting like I discovered this, but I had never seen this.

But the Benham's, who we we've known we've had on here as they wrote the

forward they said notice this when david kills goliath and king saul comes to him he asked david

whose son are you young man and again we're talking about parenting kids with character

biblical character.

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