Good morning. How are we? Happy Wednesday. How are we all doing? I'm just hanging with my

gang in the in the studio. We've already had a funny morning. So I think it's going to be a funny show.

So for anyone following along, I have my first session with Amy, the dating coach. If you haven't listened to

my episode of office hours with her, go listen because it kind of was a wake up call for me.

And I decided to work with her. So we did our first onboarding episode, kind of onboarding session.

And basically I filled out this really long questionnaire

and we went deep and um she you know she's really good at kind of just like asking questions

that make you notice your blind spots and we have discovered we have discovered people drum

roll please that I am judgmental.

I know shocking to everybody who's ever listened to me or knows me in person,

tanks, judgmental.

I was shocked to learn this in this session.

I was flabbergasted, quite frankly.

But apparently I can be judgmental about people.

Wow.

Who would have thought? And I was like saying to Amy, I was like, yeah, but Amy, if someone told me that they did drugs all night and then they went to a strip club and danced on, you know, I wouldn't be judgy at all. And she was like, that's not the type of judgment that we're talking about here. And I was like, oh, okay. Then after we did this session, she wrote wrote me a bio a new bio for my dating app and she

picked new pictures for me so i'm gonna do like a before and after i don't know maybe i'll do like

a tic talk video or something to show but i think i figure at this point just go with it i had

a talk with myself before and i was like, Tinks, there's no point

in doing this if you don't like kind of give into it because, you know, Amy was like, you know,

you have like a low tolerance for this kind of like, basically I have a lot of trouble with like

sincerity and earnestness. I don't know why. That's just my personality. It just makes me feel a bit uncomfortable.

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