(Matt Monday): The Real Reason Your Ex Broke Up With You
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 17 February 2025
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
But the moment we hear that, we don’t believe it. We figure they just don’t want to tell us the real reason. We wonder: “Did they feel we had a lack of chemistry? Was it something I said? Were their friends pressuring them to break up with us?” Our mind starts to spiral and we analyze every single thing we might have done “wrong.”
In today’s episode, I share 3 reasons why it truly isn’t about you (REALLY!) and how you can use that knowledge to move on from heartbreak faster.
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| 0:00.0 | We could have just made a simple intro to this video, but instead we made you a sketch. |
| 0:10.0 | Thanks for sitting down with me. I've been wanting to have this chat for a while now. |
| 0:16.0 | I've been thinking and you know how much I value you. |
| 0:20.0 | And the last three months have been amazing. |
| 0:22.0 | The last nine months. |
| 0:23.5 | How amazing these last two years have been. |
| 0:26.5 | I just feel like I've learned so much from you. |
| 0:29.3 | Do you realize that? |
| 0:30.4 | And how incredible you are. |
| 0:32.4 | I think you are really special and have so many amazing qualities. |
| 0:36.5 | You know how busy I am with work and you know how busy I've been with traveling. |
| 0:40.3 | I've just been so busy with my sketch comedy group. |
| 0:44.3 | And honestly, I haven't even had enough time for myself right now. |
| 0:48.3 | And that's not fair to you, because you deserve more than that. |
| 0:51.3 | You are so beautiful. You're so emotionally intelligent. I just don't think |
| 0:56.2 | this is working. I think right now we should take some space for ourselves. It's not you. It's me. It's me. It's me. |
| 1:02.4 | It's me. Get them for exes out of here. What the fuck does that even mean? It's not you, it's me. Words that no one wants to hear. |
| 1:14.1 | Because when we hear those words, what we hear is, you're not telling me the real reason you're breaking up with me. |
| 1:21.8 | It's much, much more painful than what you're saying out loud. Now, there's a truth about 99% of breakups, |
| 1:29.8 | which is that most people, when they're the one doing the breaking up, want to come out the good guy. |
| 1:37.0 | In other words, at the same time as wanting to reject us and say, I don't want to be with you |
| 1:42.8 | anymore, they also want to be the hero of the |
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